i guess i portrayed myself as a sex-crazed teen lol, sorry just a nursing student who finds smart, (albeit a little older) men attractive haha. Im sure many of you can remember your days at school (goofy boys who think chugging a gallon of maple syrup, getting roaring drunk, or skipping class is cool). you can see my reasons for crushing on a smart and mature man. maybe the responses would have been different if i were older. I agree with Spidey, attraction happens, but boundaries do need to be maintained. I obviously wouldn't do anything to jeopardize my future, I have more sense than that, and it would be rude to my classmates to do anything obnoxious. Again i agree with Spidey, maybe the OP's gf has a close relationship with her classmate, but hopefully she sees the need to maintain boundaries to stay with the OP, and to be professional.