I just found this thread and I am SO sorry for what you had to go through. This is truly terrible. I believe you 100% and it is a tragedy that the court/judge won't listen to what your SON wants. I thought that a child who was 15 could choose for themself which parent they wanted to live with...wow was I wrong. I can imagine it was extremely difficult to be attacked over and over and I am certain I would have done the same (crying, talking out of turn...it is your child!) It just breaks my heart to think how much you love him and fought for him and how much he wants to be with you and you had to go through all this....I understand how you must feel about right now. :( (((((((hugs)))))))
My children have a dad that makes false promises, says he will come see them and never does. Doesn't pay child support..yada yada, I won't hijack this thread. I can't imagine being on the other end fighting like you are. And to think your ex adopted him and he is biologically YOURS, and he WANTS to be with you???! This drives me nuts just trying to analyze it.
I don't even know what else to say. My thoughts are with you. Really.