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  1. Hello everyone, thank-you for responding to my previous post. I would like to start a new post "things you would say to your younger self". I will start. Don't rush your youth there is plenty of time to grow-up Tell your best friend that she means a lot to you. Laugh more, have more fun You are fine just the way you are Trust your gut always Be more forgiving Don't break up with that guy.
  2. Hello everyone, do you always follow your gut instincts when making decisions? Sometimes I cannot determine what my gut instincts is telling me. For example I have to attend an event but I'm unsure if I should go, but I know if I don't go I will feel guilty. :confused:
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    Dreaming

    Hello everyone, I hope everyone is doing well. I am so happy to have this forum available. I do not believe in dreams but I can't help but think about these recurring dreams I have of a friend I once had. I miss this friend a lot and we parted ways many years ago because of a difference in opinions, we were both at a growing stage of our lives. This individual continues to appear in my dreams, at least once a month. She was like a sister to me, there are days when I wish we were still connected but I feel too much time has passed, and the trust is gone. Plus our lives have changed where we fit. I called her a few years back and she acted like she never missed me, promised to call me back but never did. When we parted ways there was a time when she called me daily for months but I was too hurt to answer the phone or return her calls. What are your thoughts?
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    Am I being selfish?

    Hello everyone, I hope everyone is enjoying the weekend. I am feeling a little uncomfortable. My significant other and I am have been invited to attend a family party. In fact my significant other was invited. I told my significant other that I will attend the party only if we can leave at a reasonable time as I have a few items to attend to. My significant other got upset and stated he can not gurantee the time when we will leave the party. So I have decided not to attend. I must also note that in the past few years I have missed quite a few family parties as a result of us not agreeing on a time to leave. Keep in mind that my significant other attends all parties wheather I attend or not. I must say that I feeling pretty bad that I should go. I never really know what this person is thinking. For example the other day I stated that I wanted to purchase something and he agreed to half on the purchase. On arrival to the store his mood changed, so I paid my half, and I have decided to pay is half as well. What are your thoughts?
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    Dreaming

    Hello everyone, thank-you for all your great advise.
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    Am I being selfish?

    Thanks everyone for all the great responses. I will pick and choose my events. I will also try to travel with my own transportation so that I can freely leave when I want. Boy the days when you went where you wanted and when you wanted. It's not easy having a significant other in fact it's really hard.
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    Am I being selfish?

    Thanks everyone for posting. Some great advise. I will try to compromise or arrive in separate forms of transport.
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    Am I being selfish?

    Hello Poi Dog, I do care. I really want to attend these family gatherings if it were up to me, I would attend every event. But sometimes I have other obligations on the same date, and if possible I would like to do both, But my significant other often doesn't give me an option either attend ot don't attend it's up to me he going regardless. He doesn't care how things appear.
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