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  1. You sound like a gem and seem to be trying to work together to accomplish this difficult goal.The Mr.Mom role is great,it is a big help when her mind can be free to study and focus on her school work.Nursing school is very challenging.I also suggest not to forget each other in the middle of such a busy and exhausting life,and obligations. Plan occasional time together,does not have to be expensive,just devoting some time together,to reconnect,recharge.Talk and tell each other about your day.As far as the children go try to watch supernanny for tips on parenting. Nurses like to talk about their day and the stress but men do not want to feel the reliving of her day.So find something else you both enjoy talking about and listen even just a little about her day. Good luck to you,keep us posted.
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    Am I Mean?

    Sometimes men hook up with nurses because they know about their earning potential,you have to decide what you want for your future.There is no fun in loving no matter how romantic and sweet when life and reality enters the picture.Financial problems,poor credit,do not make for a stable romantic life.When you are young it is easily overlooked until you find your children going hungry,without medical care, no rent money.I remember a nephew who told us he married this girl because they both wanted the same thing...to get ahead, be successful.He was not rich,her family had more,but he had a vision,and has made his and her dreams come true.They have spiritual and material wealth. So think about it,how do you want to live your future?
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    September 2018 Caption Contest: Win $100!

    Yeah,it always brings the bloodthirsty Bela Lugosi fans here!!!
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    Art and Music

    Eve of Destruction
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    Do YOU Keto?

    Im getting hungry reading this.
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    New nursing student with marital issues...need help!!

    You say it has never been your life but in reality it has been bad for 15 years. I do not understand why you moved with him.Is his income more than yours? I knew several students that separated,divorced during that time. The ones that fared better had alot of family support in babysitting,money,companionship. I would recommend something I listened to the other day,a motivational speaker who changed her life around completely.She walked the walk.Look up U tube for her story, Lisa Nichols...inspiring, wish you the best.
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    You ONLY work 3 days a week!

    Here is my vent,very supportive husband,very helpful,his way=would only do the things he enjoyed like cooking and not the ones he did not like as in cleaning the toilet.Both worked full time days,but he was careless about bus schedules for the kids,locking the door acted a like a workaholic..blah blah.It got so bad I switched to part time nights so I could be home for the children,then he complained about my shorter hours and less insurance coverage,I ignored him and continued to do what I had to do.Years later I was able to go back full time, days and hubby was furious,vexed about "that salary you now making",.....I hired a cleaning person and ignored the rants.I told him , that he could go to nursing school,take all those miserable exams and work holidays,weekends,nights Too !!So you see you can not please everyone,you have to please yourself.
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    Brother, and his Girlfriend, Are Driving Me Nuts!

    Feel your pain,but if she used and dumped him it would be a blessing and he could be rid of her.Yet he already is defensive by saying no one wants them to be together...that is your clue to stay out of it...been there with an older brother. He refused to listen,now kids are in the picture,she is neglectful,drinking,taking his money.He still feels sorry for the poor girl with "hard " life. Once beautiful home is disgustingly dirty,she does not work,does not pay bills....his talking of getting rid of her is all talk. I just pray.Hope your brother comes out of this,but do not interfere or comment,he will only stick to her like glue.
  9. Burt was the first male centerfold in Cosmopolitan mag or playgirl mag,Gorgeous but I remember the nasty critical remarks by those so jealous of his good looks.Going to miss him .The movie with Dom Deluise was so funny .RIP Burt.
  10. Blessings on your ability to move all over the place and as a new baby family.Good Luck
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    Return my husband

    I am so sorry you are going through this but whatever made you decide to go it alone has not been resolved.You are just feeling sad and if he really is with someone else why risk disease,aren't you worth more ? To finish this dead marriage or revive it will take a tremendous amount of work and guidance from a professional.Take good care of yourself and prepare , just in case it will not work out with him.Good luck.
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    Climate Change: Coming to Your Hospital Soon

    I am sorry to say been there done that this type of alarming scare had us totally freaking out in the late 60's,early 70's.The book called POPULATION BOMB (by Dr.Paul Ehrlich- appearing often on Carson show scaring the daylights out of us.) had us in a state where flushing the toilet made us feel guilty about water use.This really affected our decisions on family size,adoption, political involvement, volunteering with John Kennedy jr.and other naive actions too embarrassing to mention. And so ..what happened? Nothing .People continue to make pigs of themselves,drive Hummers,build bigger , consume ,pollute, more. I am not jumping onto this bandwagon ,this time I just observe.
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    What comes to mind when you hear Donald Trump ?

    Oh you posted this for Trump bashing not adult exchange of ideas and opinions.Lol. My mistaken entry,wipe.
  14. It is communism no matter what the PC secret police call it.If it walks like a duck and quackes like a duck......
  15. Is that why rapists go free in Sweden?