Thanks everyone for your opinion. Yes, she does go to work everyday. I do understand everyone needs help from time to time. I even tried cleaning up her house. I think her house should be condemned(sp). Dog feces and hair is everywhere. No running water in the house. The dog doesn't get a chance to go outside ever. So you could just imagine what is smells like inside the house. After I clean she was made I that I threw away her stuff. But she had trash inside the home for years!!! I would understand if she didn't make good money. She's an IT specialist, and make more than my husband!!! We even let her come over to our home to shower, and spend time with our children. I don't know what to do now. He bought her a car a few years back, and she didn't take care of it. So, now she's looking for him to get her another car. My husband just recently got laid off from work. So I'm the primary breadwinner right now. So I don't know where to turn.