It happens everywhere on the internet these days. It's a Facebook thing, or at least that's where I first started to see it. Forum etiquette is just not what it used to be in the old days. Although allNurses posters seem to expect a kinder gentler internet that what I am used to. Back in my day when the computer made a funny sound when it was online, and you couldn't make a phone call and send an email at the same time, we argued got upset and then got over it because " The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact". The big sin was not following the rules of decorum. If you wanted to participate in the community then you had to learn the rules and culture of that community or you would not get respect.