Four years ago I met a guy, we dated, we lived together ,got engaged, had serious issues, I broke up with him and moved out. For 2 years we would run into one another socially, but we were just polite. Then one day he said he might be moving out of state for a job. I was shocked at how much that upset me. So I said would you like to start dating again?.He said yes, a few days later he got an out of state job offer which he accepted. I spent a few days debating whether I should go with him. I took a leap of faith, moved to another state, got a new job, and 4 months later I asked him to marry me. We're getting married in 3 weeks. I am thrilled.