I'm sorry your mother is going thru this.. I believe when given a choice- suffering is
Optional. Visit your mom and give het a big hug but make the visit short.
It's painful knowing that your mom was mistreated as a child - now a grown
Woman who decided to take on the task of taking care of her. We are all responsible for the
Decisions we make- and you have to decide what's right for you. Be at peace with that decision
and nevermind what everyone else has to say :)