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  1. Born2BANurse1

    What is the best way 4 me 2 lose weight. Need 2 lose 60pds?

    I am a CNA and I work at a hospital. I work 12 hour shifts and by the end of the day I feel like I ran a marathon. My calfs and thighs are so sore when I am done. I don't do much exercise but I do do a lot of fast walking at work. Not the same as actually working out though.
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    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    His parents were married before he was born and still married. They have been married 32yrs. So he knows that marriages can be successful with two people that are inlove. However, he did say that he was afraid our relationship would change if we got married. You know when I was pregnant with our 1st child he asked me just like this. "So wanna get married now"? I was 19yrs old and was trying to play all big and bad (immature) I told him in exact words, "No way why should we". He said that hurt his feelings a few yrs later because he was serious. back then I thought he was just playing because the way he said it, no ring didn't event get on one knee, yuo know the traditional way. I just wish back then I said YES!! But I did clear that all up when he told me I hurt his feelings 2 yrs later so he does know that I will not reject him again. That was 7 yrs ago.
  3. Born2BANurse1

    What is the best way 4 me 2 lose weight. Need 2 lose 60pds?

    The information above is so helpful, thank you so much. I will try this out. Another question, how many days a wk should I be working out? Is it true that I need to combine cardio and weight training together?
  4. Born2BANurse1

    What is the best way 4 me 2 lose weight. Need 2 lose 60pds?

    I might try it. Is it expensive? Also do you all go to do the weigh ins?
  5. Born2BANurse1

    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    oh no problem. yes we have talked about the wedding thing and he said his plans are to marry me.
  6. Born2BANurse1

    What is the best way 4 me 2 lose weight. Need 2 lose 60pds?

    So Many people tell me weight watchers is the best way to do it, maybe I will try. About the hypnosis I thought about trying that, did you do it, if so did it work?
  7. i have been trying to lose weight for years now. i am at my highest weight ever and i am so ready to kick this bad habit off me. i want to lose 60 pounds and i have tryed doing the southbeach diet and many others, it just doesn't last long. i hear that lowering my calorie intake and increasing my activity level will work. i know this is true but seems so hard. how do i keep track of calories in a hectic life like mines? i don't event know what foods to buy, i mean i have a idea but just get in the grocery store and mymind goes blank. i am soooo serious about this and want to better my health for my children. for the healthy eatters, what is your typical meals for a day? breakfast, snacks, lunch, dinner. i have all the work out equipment at home such as an eliptical, total, gym, weights, dvd's, etc. i really want help, i don't want to keep doing these fad diets i want to learn how to eat the correct way. please help me i am so ready!!!!!!!
  8. Born2BANurse1

    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    no i have not asked him yet and that i wont do. i don't believe in the women asking the man to marry her. i know it happens but i wont do it. to me that is his job.
  9. Born2BANurse1

    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    I agree with you totally on the part where you said he is a strong quiet one. That is so true of him. However, I talk to him and ask him questions such as are we ever gonna get married or do you want to marry me. He knows that I want to get married and I told him I will have a husband. I told him it can be him or someone else who treats me good like him, which I prefer the father of my 3 children of course. He knows that I am not gonna wait forever but like men they wait til you are walking out and then wanna get on their knees and give you whatever you want. It is confusing and stressful to me at times. The last time we had the marriage conversation I asked him why is he waiting. He said he is scared of things changing. Big whatever to that, to me that is just an excuse. Can someone really be afraid of things changing. And changing he meant for the worst.
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    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    Yes he knows that I want a decent wedding, he knows that because I have told him the type of wedding I want. I told him a few years back that I wanted to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon and he just listened to what I was saying. Maybe I am being a little to expensive. I don't know maybe I need to let him know that we can really afford it if we rethink it.
  11. Born2BANurse1

    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    It's not a fairy tale wedding, it is what I want. Why should I have to do a generic wedding.
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    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    That is true we are more committed than a lot of people I know who have been married for years. We became best friends before anything. I just don't see myself telling him I want a ring or i'm leaving you. We do have 3 kids and our love is deeper than any diamond ring. Don't get me wrong, I do want to get married soon. I just want him to come around when he feels he is ready, not because I pressured him). We had a talk and he knows what I want so we will see. I will graduate from nursing school in two yrs and if we are not married soon after that are before that I will probably have to give him the autamatum.
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    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    I know a big party is not important to my children and I have thought about going to the JP and having an affordable reception. I know the truth is if he were to say lets go get married tomorrow I would, big wedding or JP. Excuses huh. I just always wanted to be married and it seems like it will never happen. Is this my fault, what more can I do to let him know that I am tired of playing house and he get all the benifits without responsibility.
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    3 kids in a relationship 9 yrs, no marriage

    The reason why I say financially we can't afford it right now is because I don't want to go in front of the JP and get married. It is our big day and I do want a decent wedding. I want my family and friends there and his also. I want our children to be in the wedding and soon. I want to thank you all for the words and I agree with most of them. I need to take a stand and let him know that if we don't get married in the next year it is over. Man where do I find the right words for this. I don't think anyone should be forced into marriage and I don't want him to think that nor do I want to feel like he only married me because I made him. I know I will have to pray and ask God for the words.
  15. I have been in a relationship with a great guy for 9yrs now. We have 3 kids together 1 which he raised since she was 6 months old. Our relationship is good but I want more. He knows that I want to get married and he said we will one day. In my mind I wonder why one day and not now, we have been living together for 8 years with three kids ages 4, 6, and 9. Financially we can't afford it and I wonder is he trying to wait til he is financially able to be a good provider. I am in nursing school and work as a CNA and he is in barber school and cuts hair on the side for the income. All my friends and family always tell us that we are like the perfect couple and seem so inlove. We are very much in love but I am tired of saying my boyfriend. What do I do in a situation like this? He is so good to me and is the husband I want and he tells me I am the one he will marry. Any advice please.
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