Ok everyone I have not dated anyone, but my soon to be ex for over 20 years. We split for many reasons, but it was his choice to split. He just did not want me anymore. Stupid man! Well any the reason for my tread is I want someone's opinion about how soon is too soon to jump into the dating game? I was asked out tonight and I really was not expecting it at all. He seems like a very nice man, but I was married for 20 years so I would think that there should be a mourning period or something. However, it is so nice to be asked out and to have someone think I am worth the effort. Please those of you that have been there done that give me your opinion.