Agreed, people wont change.
Also if my furbaby was afraid of someone I would listen to her and not him! She has been with you for 13 years, she isnt lying to you, this guy is scary!
My parents had a cat once, a true lover a sweetie to the bone. My grandfather came over to visit and HATES all animals with a passion. The cat walked right up to him and attacked him, drew blood.... trust me cats know.... listen to your kitty. DANGER!
Also I know for me that would be a deal breaker, love me love my cat, thankfully my hubby is the same way :D
NO ONE hits My Zoe, NO ONE