I agree and can admit to feeling a twinge of guilt for calling some people annoying.And for that I apologize, however , some of the people I referenced have been less than nice to me at times, and although that is not justification or reason to post about them on a thread, I do believe I suffered from a human moment and vented my frustrations. it was silly and childish most definitely but I dont think its something we all need to beat ourselves up over.
I stated, and still believe, that I know I annoy some people, and had they posted "hapeewendy you're as irritating as the thong in my buttcracK" I would deal... I do admit that not everyone can and would be able to deal with being told they are annoying.
And there is something to be said for those users that purposely try to incite argument , conflict and strife on this board. I do not like that kind of behaviour ,and to call it annoying would be putting it mildly, and yes what Jon said about the target thing
we are humans, and we need to remember that there is someone behind that "identity" with feelings and emotions, in the same breath, if you know that what you are posting could infuriate some people or cause conflict where it doesnt need to be then you might want to think before you post. I have caught myself a few times in that respect.
I think (this is after reading the new TOS) that many of us (myself included) need to know that this is not really a public board , I forgot that and figured I could post at will and thats simply not the case.
I think the people that post about other ppl being annoying, did not do this to break someones character down or crush someones feelings, I think that , well I for one, fell into the old trap where you turn to your friends (which i consider most of you - friends that is) and vent and be done with it.
Just like when a co worker or a friend or some random stranger on the street annoys you.
Next time I wont express my frustrations
(well not here anyway)