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So just as I think things are getting better, the bottom drops out.

As I was heading up to a doctor's appointment my ******* of a (soon to be ex) husband packed up himself AND my son & took them my husband's parent's place. I only found out when my mom texted me.

So I headed to my (ex) husband's parent's place with police (because he threatened to call the police if I stepped foot on their property). But when the police asked if he would hand my son over, he said I wasn't a fit mother.

So the police said because he is the biological father there is nothing I can do to get my son back.

I am devastated. My (ex) promised he would never take my son away from me. So now I am officially done with him. I got a lawyer & this time there is no turning back.

So I probably won't be on here much, if at all while I'm trying to get my son back & dealing with the divorce.

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OC, I have no words. But sending hugs and thoughts your way.

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So just as I think things are getting better, the bottom drops out.

As I was heading up to a doctor's appointment my ******* of a (soon to be ex) husband packed up himself AND my son & took them my husband's parent's place. I only found out when my mom texted me.

So I headed to my (ex) husband's parent's place with police (because he threatened to call the police if I stepped foot on their property). But when the police asked if he would hand my son over, he said I wasn't a fit mother.

So the police said because he is the biological father there is nothing I can do to get my son back.

I am devastated. My (ex) promised he would never take my son away from me. So now I am officially done with him. I got a lawyer & this time there is no turning back.

So sorry to hear about this, OC. You must be devastated. I hope that things work out. How awful that he just took your son away from you! I can't believe that he can legally do that.

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Yikes. As the child of a divorce done "well" and the wife of a child of a divorce done not so well, I hate it when parents use kids as pawns in a quest to hurt the ex. I hope things calm down and your ex will be reasonable.

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I'm so, so sorry. Sending tons of strength and hoping for the best for you. You've got tons of support on here, for what it's worth, so even if you have to come here just to post the equivalent of a scream into a pillow, this is probably a good place to do it.

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I'm so sorry O C that you have go through this. Sending hugs honey

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OMG.

This is the most hateful, terrible thing ever. I am so, so sorry! You know how to find me if you need to talk. ❤️

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I'm so sorry OC, we are here when you need us.

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Chaos. Are you with anyone that loves you right now and has your back?

You have my number.

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I'm so sorry OC. Will keep you in my thoughts. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. You will be missed while you are away. And we will be impatiently awaiting your return. Keep us updated.

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