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I want to updated everyone with great news!!! I met up with my husband to see my son. My husband & I talked for a very very very very looooong time. After the talk we decided NOT to get a divorce. I can't tell all of you how happy I am!

I want to thank all of you for your prayers, well wishes & crossed appendages!

I'm happy for you, and glad you have your son back.

Be careful.

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Be careful.

this....I hope everything works out the way you want it, but watch out for yourself and son for a while. good luck and (((HUGS)))

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OC- I hope everything continues to work out the way you want and need them to for you and your son's sake.

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I want to updated everyone with great news!!! I met up with my husband to see my son. My husband & I talked for a very very very very looooong time. After the talk we decided NOT to get a divorce. I can't tell all of you how happy I am!

I want to thank all of you for your prayers, well wishes & crossed appendages!

I'm so happy things are working out. Like Far says, be careful, and protect yourself and your son.

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Sigh....

I hate to be this way, OC. But, don't believe it.

Be wary. In my experience, men only back down when they are going to lose. (Yes, I know that sounds awful and discriminatory, but living it is worse, and I don't want OC to find out the hard way.)

Make him work for it, so he values you the way he should. I'm not saying be hard and bitter, but I am saying... how can I put it?

Trust, but verify. Believe that he will work with you, but don't believe it's for you and your baby or about you and your baby until he has proven it.

Put him on probation. What he did is wrong, on so many levels. I wouldn't even trust him with your son on his own without you or your mother. Who's to say he won't get mad over something stupid and take your son away again?

Anyway, that's my bitter and paranoid advice. I hope it isn't necessary.

I hope he has realized just how much of a jerk he was and how big of a mistake he made. I hope his heart is in the right place and he loves you and wants to make your family whole. I just don't believe it.

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(((((cani)))))

Love ya, girl.

I feel the same way.

Chaos, like I said in my first post, PLEASE be careful.

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