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So I have this dilemma. There's this Hot MD whose been giving me the eye for months now. I know, sounds a little delusional on my part but it's true. I haven't told anyone except for my roomate whose also a nurse. I'm new, and I don't really know him before. And I can't help falling for him. Especially since he's doing he's "McDreamy" ways, always smiling at me everytime we bump into each other in the hospital hallways.:redbeathe

Thing is, he just says hi or hello to me and I do the same. It's so crazy because he's such a charmer I've seen him chat up other nurses and he can talk to them- in complete sentences but when it comes to me, he just follows me, looks at the incubator with my patient on ultrasound and and just stares like crazy, I feel so self-conscious. There was this one time, at 5:30 am, he saw me outside the hospital as i was about to get inside, I didn't see him, and then got the shock of my life when this gorgeous person was smiling at me! It was 5:30 am, dark, and I was covering my face with a hanky from the cold, I didn't think he'd recognize me, I'm not even fully awake yet!!! :redpinkhe I think I could've talk to him already, if he weren't so intimidating. UgHH!

What do you guys think? He's single, so am I, but he has other "issues" that he needs to work on.

Should I go for it or forget him??

:nurse:

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Be very careful. It might be awkward working with him if it falls through or if he really is not interested. My mom always said, "Don't s**t in your own backyard.":twocents:

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He's been giving you the eye, just be careful he doesn't give you something else you don't need! :wink2:

Be careful, but have fun.

Anne, RNC

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Maybe he is shy and has respect for you and doesnt know how to approach,a lot of times when a man has true feeling for a women they are shy to approach,make converstation with him you know small talk but also keep your distance and let him come to you and pursue you,do not come off as an easy prey,well good luck and keep us posted~

Ps.You are not delusional BTW,during my clinicals I had at least 3 docs (one was a med student and one was also a surgeon!) staring at me,making small talks blabla LOL:)))

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How do you know for sure he is single? He might be shooting the OR nurses the same dreamy looks.

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Just make him go slow. If he's really into you, he will. I was best friends with my wife for 4 months before she ever put the moves on me! (and she told me she would NEVER EVER date me... in front of my friends too!) OMG was I suffering for her!:redpinkhe:redpinkhe

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So I have this dilemma. There's this Hot MD whose been giving me the eye for months now. I know, sounds a little delusional on my part but it's true. I haven't told anyone except for my roomate whose also a nurse. I'm new, and I don't really know him before. And I can't help falling for him. Especially since he's doing he's "McDreamy" ways, always smiling at me everytime we bump into each other in the hospital hallways.:redbeathe

Thing is, he just says hi or hello to me and I do the same. It's so crazy because he's such a charmer I've seen him chat up other nurses and he can talk to them- in complete sentences but when it comes to me, he just follows me, looks at the incubator with my patient on ultrasound and and just stares like crazy, I feel so self-conscious. There was this one time, at 5:30 am, he saw me outside the hospital as i was about to get inside, I didn't see him, and then got the shock of my life when this gorgeous person was smiling at me! It was 5:30 am, dark, and I was covering my face with a hanky from the cold, I didn't think he'd recognize me, I'm not even fully awake yet!!! :redpinkhe I think I could've talk to him already, if he weren't so intimidating. UgHH!

What do you guys think? He's single, so am I, but he has other "issues" that he needs to work on.

Should I go for it or forget him??

:nurse:

Interesting story that you have here...:) A story like this makes me feel younger, makes me recall the "school days"...thank you for sharing such a beautiful experience...:)

I can somehow relate with your story in this one, but from a man's point of view(POV), I can say that he might be really on to you, or is attracted to you. He might just be too shy for it though(to make the move and let you know of his intentions). There are just guys like that, and count me in. However, if you like him also, or if you might want to know him more, why don't you open "doors or windows(of opportunity)"?;)

Nothing is going to ever happen and you will both be thinking of the what-ifs and might have regrets later on if no one will ever make a move or a step closer to the other, consider it like a stalemate in chess. Sometimes, guys also need some "push" or a "starter", taking some sort of risk without compromising your own safety. It's okay to try but not to let your personal guard down. You can explore and probably communicate with him, in the most subtle way possible, then gradually progress if things would somehow work out.:1luvu:

I'm just intrigued though, may we know of these issues that he needs to work on?:cool:

You will never know what could happen, unless you try. No pain, no gain. No guts, no glory. Gentleman-Lady encounters could really get so stressful but yet inspiring; these are the things that make us human.:nurse:

Proceed with caution.:heartbeat hehehe...:dance:

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i would just break the ice with small conversation. when a guy likes us, they'll let us know, especially if they want a relationship. your story made me think of the movie. . ."he's just not that in to you", and it's just about these women that were reading the signals 'wrong' from the guys when the guys were actually interested in them. sometimes, as women, we tend to analize everything, relax, if he wants you, he'll let you know, just like the other poster said, open your doors and windows.

small talk won't hurt ya!!

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Just make him go slow. If he's really into you, he will. I was best friends with my wife for 4 months before she ever put the moves on me! (and she told me she would NEVER EVER date me... in front of my friends too!) OMG was I suffering for her!:redpinkhe:redpinkhe

That is soooo sweet!! :redbeathe

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I always assume posts like these to be troll posts. They always seem to show up, same sort of scenario, random poster with two posts total, maybe three, every few months.

Tait

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You make it sound like because he's a "surgeon" the idea of him staring at you is "delusional"...just because he's an MD does not mean he is not a normal guy. I just hope you don't go into anything with a "God" complex and worship the ground he walks on. Just think of him like a co-worker or the "hot" guy at the coffee shop and go from there.

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