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You are right. How funny is that! Lol. Maybe I should just go slow so I don't get hurt. ; )

What a concept! :yeah::up:

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He, he , he I was just to say "go for it"... because I believed that you are a gurl, loooool... but if you are a man...AND an RN... forget about !

why, zuzi?

i'm not understanding what being a man AND an rn, has to do with it?

if both (single/unattached) parties are seemingly interested in ea other AND can keep it professional at work, i say go for it.

leslie

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i don't understand why the man here is told to "go for it", but the female in the other thread is being told to stay away from pursuing a relationship at work.

This is so interesting to me. But not so much so that I am going to continue reading about it...LOL

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i don't understand why the man here is told to "go for it", but the female in the other thread is being told to stay away from pursuing a relationship at work.

This is so interesting to me. But not so much so that I am going to continue reading about it...LOL

Maybe because the male physician/female nurse dyad smacks of traditional gender roles: the dominant, male doctor having power over the subservient female nurse. Not saying there's anything wrong with traditional gender roles as long as BOTH parties share power---but when one person has power over the other, there's a risk for a very unhealthy relationship dynamic.

The female physician, male nurse pairing (or a same-gender pairing) seems to be more gender-equal. While one person can still have power over the other, chances are that both persons, being in traditionally opposite-gender professions, will have more equitable beliefs and treat each other as equals. (BTW, I am aware that not all relationships follow any certain pattern, that women can have power over men just as men can have power over women---and I also am aware that not all gay or lesbian relationships are between equals and same-sex pairings have their power issues just like heterosexual couples. But I am speaking in general, traditional terms here, not specifically toward any two people in particular.)

Okay, maybe it's because I was married to a medical deity who acted like it at work and at home. Seriously, when I was single, I found that relationships with men who were nurses were far more equal than relationships with men who were doctors. (So why did I----I was nuts!!!!!) :twocents:

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i don't understand why the man here is told to "go for it", but the female in the other thread is being told to stay away from pursuing a relationship at work.

This is so interesting to me. But not so much so that I am going to continue reading about it...LOL

Cherybaby, I think we need to consider from whom the comments are coming. The guys are thinking with their male anatomy and the girls are using their brains. Just the way we've been wired. Don't blame us. Blame God! lol.

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why, zuzi?

i'm not understanding what being a man AND an rn, has to do with it?

if both (single/unattached) parties are seemingly interested in ea other AND can keep it professional at work, i say go for it.

leslie

A MAN with a woman doctor, he, he, he IS NOT WORKING EVER! And I will explain you why! Because MEN have BIG MOUTH ALWAYS, special when is a relation with a doctor or a "NAME". Just in dreams you could belive that A MAN could keep a relation "PROFESSIONAL". Their brain is in another way builded, at a chit-chat beetwen men, what is the most prove of macho power than to show-up your relation with a DOCTOR-WOMAN, the macho

RN-MAN , little "dirty secret"... is about POWER, diverted in another way....men power, damn it!

With an RN woman and an doctor RN woman is in another way, two woman ALWAYS cover their relationship because they know what they have, is not about SEX, is a "little bit more, lol" than a friendship, is about trust and protection and cuddle and hard way to found it :banghead::D. Show me one man who can do it and HE is the man, lol.

I am biased I know, I always be, life show me that I have right.... if you find "Mister Right" told me, loooool, he is not borned yet, he, he, he! :chuckle:chuckle

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A MAN with a woman doctor, he, he, he IS NOT WORKING EVER! And I will explain you why! Because MEN have BIG MOUTH ALWAYS, special when is a relation with a doctor or a "NAME". Just in dreams you could belive that A MAN could keep a relation "PROFESSIONAL". Their brain is in another way builded, at a chit-chat beetwen men, what is the most prove of macho power than to show-up your relation with a DOCTOR-WOMAN, the macho

RN-MAN , little "dirty secret"... is about POWER, diverted in another way....men power, damn it!

With an RN woman and an doctor RN woman is in another way, two woman ALWAYS cover their relationship because they know what they have, is not about SEX, is a "little bit more, lol" than a friendship, is about trust and protection and cuddle and hard way to found it :banghead::D. Show me one man who can do it and HE is the man, lol.

I am biased I know, I always be, life show me that I have right.... if you find "Mister Right" told me, loooool, he is not borned yet, he, he, he! :chuckle:chuckle

I don't understand your post. Perhaps if it was written in English it would make more sense. By the way, my wife is a doctor AND a lawyer and our relationship works beautifully!

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Good for you beuatifull....you are one the most HAPPY MEN then! I don't belive in these beautifull fairy tales about RN men in LOVE with women DOCTORS, stinks... "It works" is one face of reality LOVE is another one.... my english is bad, my truth is harsh... enjoy your life...if IS WORKS is WORKS.... put some love in it and is just HEAVEN! Good for you!

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Spine,

Just don't let the other nurses see ya start wearing your scrubs two sizes too small... then the talkin starts.

.. hey, just say'in!

Edited by netglow

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i was once pulled to sit with someone headed towards a 72 hour hold, stepped halfway out of the door while they consulted with the patient, and this smokin' 1st year internal med resident asked me lots of smiley questions about the book i was reading, and lingered for a bit...never saw her again, but quite fun, as i had a few years on her and was obviously mr. tech, pretty low on the medical totem pole (chuckle).

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Just be careful if it doesn't work out it might be a bit dramatic.

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He, he , he I was just to say "go for it"... because I believed that you are a gurl, loooool... but if you are a man...AND an RN... forget about !

Why not?

My advice for the guy is, check it out. You might misinterpret things. Work with time, and you'll discover the truth. Get to know her more.

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