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Feeling guilty!

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I recently saw an ex while working. We talked and caught up a bit and I even showed him some pics of my kiddos. I have been married 7 years now. But I am feeling guilty because I can't tell my husband I saw my ex. (HIPAA)

Anyone else have any similar experiences?

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Why are you feeling guilty? Is it because you talked to your ex?

I am guessing that you only interacted with him because of work. It's not like you went to a Motel 6 ;)

I have found that guilt is an emotion that serves no purpose. Don't be so hard on yourself.

(((hugs)))

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I second Poi. You did nothing wrong! I think it's awesome you care that much about your spouse. :) But I see no reason for you to feel guilty here. Sometimes our mind just likes to do that to us.

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Both previous posters are right........BUT, I understand what you are saying! My husband took YEARS to get over the suspicion that I still harbored feelings for an EX. If I told him I'd run into the Ex and had a conversation with him, regardless of how innocuous, he would be "wondering" again and the tensions would rise up all over again. UGH!

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