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Epic fail tonight...

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After no communication for the past 2 months, I contacted my ex. Wth was I thinking? I had a weak and non-intelligent moment. I emailed him but then I blocked his address (yeah, I reverted back to high school). :rolleyes: :nuke::icon_roll

Ah well. I won't do that again. If I do, please ban me from this site ---now that would be the ultimate torture. :smokin:

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Sorry. It probably wasn't the best thing to do. Try not to look back..... imua :) :hug:

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Sorry. It probably wasn't the best thing to do. Try not to look back..... imua :) :hug:

I hit send and then had an 'oh, crap' moment but it was too late. Off the email went into cyberspace. :down:

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OK- it's not going to make the journals of ex-husband management- BUT obviously you have a lot of feelings about this guy...and they hurt. Try a journal to get your feelings out- they don't have send buttons :) somebody once told me that you can always choose to tell someone but once it's done, you cannot choose to take it back....:)

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OK- it's not going to make the journals of ex-husband management- BUT obviously you have a lot of feelings about this guy...and they hurt. Try a journal to get your feelings out- they don't have send buttons :) somebody once told me that you can always choose to tell someone but once it's done, you cannot choose to take it back....:)

As long as no send buttons are involved, I'll be all right :smokin:

We weren't married...thank goodness :rolleyes:

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OY, Poi!

But I;ve done it,too.....Though it was in the days before e-mailing: I mailed my ex....POEMS!:eek: and once that envelope was dropped through the mail slot, there was no getting it back! What was even worse was the total screaming SILENCE of NO response.:hdvwl: Oh, well, LIVE AND LEARN!:o It'll get better...after a while :hug:

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Poi, it's hard.

Now that's it's done, all you can do is wait for a response.

If it's negative, then you are in no different position than what you were in before.

I broke up with my ex boyfriend (story behind that) then boo-hoo-hooed the next week.

Stopped by his house and cried bitter tears and poured my heart out to him.

He has a great heart. Gave me hugs but said he was conflicted. Looked like he was going to cry.

But he told me he wasn't going to call me and that he loved me, but not the way I wanted him to.

I felt as though I made a fool of myself, but I know he's not an a## to think that way about me. Just made it worse that he's so nice! lol

But i had to do it.

I had to be honest and his words pushed me to try and go forward.

I've had a strange turn of events since, but that's not for this post.

Maybe your ex will give you those words that will either make you happy... or push you forward.

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OY, Poi!

But I;ve done it,too.....Though it was in the days before e-mailing: I mailed my ex....POEMS!:eek: and once that envelope was dropped through the mail slot, there was no getting it back! What was even worse was the total screaming SILENCE of NO response.:hdvwl: Oh, well, LIVE AND LEARN!:o It'll get better...after a while :hug:

Ay, I would have tried to climb into the box :lol2:

Thanks for replying.

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Poi, it's hard.

Now that's it's done, all you can do is wait for a response.

If it's negative, then you are in no different position than what you were in before.

I broke up with my ex boyfriend (story behind that) then boo-hoo-hooed the next week.

Stopped by his house and cried bitter tears and poured my heart out to him.

He has a great heart. Gave me hugs but said he was conflicted. Looked like he was going to cry.

But he told me he wasn't going to call me and that he loved me, but not the way I wanted him to.

I felt as though I made a fool of myself, but I know he's not an a## to think that way about me. Just made it worse that he's so nice! lol

But i had to do it.

I had to be honest and his words pushed me to try and go forward.

I've had a strange turn of events since, but that's not for this post.

Maybe your ex will give you those words that will either make you happy... or push you forward.

Thanks chica.

It was a huge oversight on my part. My friend Hill reamed me out but I know it's because he cares about me. I was, no, I am doing so much better.

I need a time-out...:smokin: :lol2: :D

PM me about the change of events, if you'd like to.

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My friend Hill reamed me out but I know it's because he cares about me. I was, no, I am doing so much better.

Sounds like you should be dating Hill.

:idea:

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Sounds like you should be dating Hill.

:idea:

Oh I so would but he is gay :redpinkhe

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Oh I so would but he is gay :redpinkhe

Gosh darn it!

I KNEW you were going to say that!

LOL! LOL!

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