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You are reading page 2 of Epic fail tonight.... If you want to start from the beginning Go to First Page.

OH, been there done that, hon. I think we all have?

If you hear nothing....like someone said, nothing changed. I'm willing to bet your ex would understand, even?

Don't sweat it. It's a new day.

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OH, been there done that, hon. I think we all have?

If you hear nothing....like someone said, nothing changed. I'm willing to bet your ex would understand, even?

Don't sweat it. It's a new day.

Thank you.

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poi, it took me a long time to get over my ex the first time around. but, i had friends who helped me get through that difficult time in my life. i was enjoying my independence and having fun with my single friends that i didn't miss him. when my friend's ex broke up with her, she made excuses about contacting him. i only told her, "if he doesn't care about you, why should you care about him?" maybe you should keep that in mind whenever you feel tempted in contacting your ex. he is having fun and enjoying his life. you should do it too.

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poi, it took me a long time to get over my ex the first time around. but, i had friends who helped me get through that difficult time in my life. i was enjoying my independence and having fun with my single friends that i didn't miss him. when my friend's ex broke up with her, she made excuses about contacting him. i only told her, "if he doesn't care about you, why should you care about him?" maybe you should keep that in mind whenever you feel tempted in contacting your ex. he is having fun and enjoying his life. you should do it too.

thank you.

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Funny I come across this thread today.

I actually had it up to my forehead with my ex today. I found an app for my droid that hides all calls and texts from whoever you want, and also has a "forbidden" list in case you have a weak moment and try to drunk text or call, it wont go through.

I feel your pain. Stupid boys.

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Funny I come across this thread today.

I actually had it up to my forehead with my ex today. I found an app for my droid that hides all calls and texts from whoever you want, and also has a "forbidden" list in case you have a weak moment and try to drunk text or call, it wont go through.

I feel your pain. Stupid boys.

I need one of those. Actually, I haven't had the urge to call/text him because I have been having too much fun lately. I am not giving him any power.

:lol2:

@stupid boys.

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Hi Poi Dog. Here's my little story about getting back into communication with the ex.

We were REALLY in love..the mystical magical kind. I didn't want to marry for a LONG time. But somehow he talked me into it. We weren't ready...both very independant and single for many years. It was an UGLY divorce which included...yes....his mother feeding the fire. I hated him so much as he did me at the time. Never did either of us think we'd even speak again. But by the time we went to the courthouse to sign the divorce papers, six months later.......we were back in giddy love again.

Taking it slow, working out our issues...getting very spiritual and philisohpical about them......knowing that love is a gift worthy of climbing mountains for.....it has been three years of two people living in two separate homes....but having the love and support that nothing can compare with.

SO. I DO NOT THINK IT IS BAD TO CONTACT AN EX. Maybe you still love him. Maybe there was some value there. Maybe just examining why you did that will help you know if you want his support as a friend, his body as a lover, or if you just want to actually have a go at a real relationship again?

I can tell you....EVERYONE who knew about he and I thought I was NUTS getting back. That is just because they didn't realize; hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is. So if there are strong feelings on either or hopefully both sides.....than there is STILL something there.

Please disregard this if he was ever physically abusive or otherwise psycopathiclly cruel...

Just another point of view here......by the way.......we are talking marriage again......WELL PLANNED AND WELL THOUGHT OUT.... smiles, blessings, and DONT BE HARD ON YOURSELF....the rest of the world will do that enough!!!!!

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Hi Poi Dog. Here's my little story about getting back into communication with the ex.

We were REALLY in love..the mystical magical kind. I didn't want to marry for a LONG time. But somehow he talked me into it. We weren't ready...both very independant and single for many years. It was an UGLY divorce which included...yes....his mother feeding the fire. I hated him so much as he did me at the time. Never did either of us think we'd even speak again. But by the time we went to the courthouse to sign the divorce papers, six months later.......we were back in giddy love again.

Taking it slow, working out our issues...getting very spiritual and philisohpical about them......knowing that love is a gift worthy of climbing mountains for.....it has been three years of two people living in two separate homes....but having the love and support that nothing can compare with.

SO. I DO NOT THINK IT IS BAD TO CONTACT AN EX. Maybe you still love him. Maybe there was some value there. Maybe just examining why you did that will help you know if you want his support as a friend, his body as a lover, or if you just want to actually have a go at a real relationship again?

I can tell you....EVERYONE who knew about he and I thought I was NUTS getting back. That is just because they didn't realize; hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is. So if there are strong feelings on either or hopefully both sides.....than there is STILL something there.

Please disregard this if he was ever physically abusive or otherwise psycopathiclly cruel...

Just another point of view here......by the way.......we are talking marriage again......WELL PLANNED AND WELL THOUGHT OUT.... smiles, blessings, and DONT BE HARD ON YOURSELF....the rest of the world will do that enough!!!!!

Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you happiness :redpinkhe

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Hi Poi Dog. Here's my little story about getting back into communication with the ex.

We were REALLY in love..the mystical magical kind. I didn't want to marry for a LONG time. But somehow he talked me into it. We weren't ready...both very independant and single for many years. It was an UGLY divorce which included...yes....his mother feeding the fire. I hated him so much as he did me at the time. Never did either of us think we'd even speak again. But by the time we went to the courthouse to sign the divorce papers, six months later.......we were back in giddy love again.

Taking it slow, working out our issues...getting very spiritual and philisohpical about them......knowing that love is a gift worthy of climbing mountains for.....it has been three years of two people living in two separate homes....but having the love and support that nothing can compare with.

SO. I DO NOT THINK IT IS BAD TO CONTACT AN EX. Maybe you still love him. Maybe there was some value there. Maybe just examining why you did that will help you know if you want his support as a friend, his body as a lover, or if you just want to actually have a go at a real relationship again?

I can tell you....EVERYONE who knew about he and I thought I was NUTS getting back. That is just because they didn't realize; hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is. So if there are strong feelings on either or hopefully both sides.....than there is STILL something there.

Please disregard this if he was ever physically abusive or otherwise psycopathiclly cruel...

Just another point of view here......by the way.......we are talking marriage again......WELL PLANNED AND WELL THOUGHT OUT.... smiles, blessings, and DONT BE HARD ON YOURSELF....the rest of the world will do that enough!!!!!

This whole post made me BAWL!!! Cuz thats exactly what happened with me and stbx... we realized how great we had it living apart... and had plans... but now he told me he's done... God i am so crushed! :'(

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