So my ex fiance is now dating my ex best friend. - page 2

Found out today. Way to twist the knife. I cannot believe how they could possibly do this to me. I me what a prick. What a bunch of pricks people I though were my friends. I just can't believe it. ... Read More

  1. by   honeyforasalteyfish
    Quote from SnowShoeRN
    Gavin, for what it's worth I had a very similar thing happen to me about 10 years ago. It took a solid 2 years for me to accept it and while I no longer hold anger toward them, I have no wish to be friends with either of them. I absolutely advocate finding a paid professional. Hang in there.
    Thanks, but I am over it. It is what it is. I just decided they weren't the people I thought they were.

    Been going out with other people occasionally. I really don't have the time to care.

    I am not going to let it interfer with my goals. I refuse to let my life suffer because of the decisions of other people.

    So I let it go.
  2. by   NurseEmmy
    A lot of people suck. Sometimes we just don't see it right away and sometimes we don't see it for years. I have a handful of friends and that's more than plenty.
    I have found I tend to expect people to treat me the way I would/do treat them, and that seems to be a standard most can't keep.

    At the end of the day know it's their loss and for the best. Who wants THOSE kind of people in their life?

    I can add I had something similar happen with my ex and the person whom I had been very close friends with for many years. I got the last laugh as that relationship was a train wreck from the get go.
  3. by   Cherisse.gio
    I know how you feel my "best friend" at the time was hooking up with the guy she introduced me to. The only reason i even found out was because my "best friends" sister told me. That happened last year and i still havent forgiven either of them, which sucks for me because i would like to move on with my life. Needless to say we are not friends anymore there was no way i could recover from that stab in the back. Mind you this was the second time shes done this so yeah im done with her.
  4. by   Hope2banurse1
    I'm so sorry this happened to you. I think the reason it hurt so much was because you probably still cared so much abt them. My bestfriend from high school, is married to my ex. I didn't even know. Years ago when I found out, we had been talking on the phone, and she let it slip that she was moving to the state we both lived in, but to his city. So I asked why? You've always wanted to go Miami. She didn't tell me, even though I had already known since she said what she said. Before I even found out, he was still calling me asking me to come visit him, when I would go by my friend he would beg to come over. Something just told me not to entertain it, I didn't care abt him any more to waste my time in seeing him. My friend wanted me to invite him over, and take pics and send it to my old friend. Not in to the childish **** though. After the night of speaking to her, I called him and started a conversation. I asked are you in a relationship or married? At first he said no, then called me back a month later and finally admitted it. I laughed so much my belly started hurting me, I thought I'd die from laughter. I didn't care that she was with him. What upset and hurt was that she was my bestfriend and she wasn't honest with me. The thing is, I never loved him, I didn't plan a future with him, I broke up with him. I decided to keep them both out of my life, for the simple fact...they lied to me.