Why do men find this appealing?

  1. Why do men find the idea of two women in a lesbian act so appealing? I am a woman and just can't fathom it. The thought of two men makes my stomache turn. I'm not asking a moral or ethical question, there is currently a discussion on that issue. I just want to know what men think about this.
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  3. by   KC CHICK
    Men always think MORE equals BETTER. 1 girl is good, so 2 would be better!!!

    Just my theory,
    Anne
  4. by   essarge
    hmmmm....lets see......you are right pk, don't know why...just a sec, will ask hubby. OK (hmphhh...cough..cough - clearing throat) this is what he said...oh boy......ummmmm...geesh...I can't say it....OK....he said that he can't stand the thought of seeing two men blank each other up the blank....but two women together are more natural........eeeewwwwwww!!! Talk about homophobic!!! Guess I'll have to have another talk with him!!!!!

    Good thread, we'll have to get kennedy involved in this one, what do you think?
  5. by   WashYaHands
    Good thread, we'll have to get kennedy involved in this one, what do you think?
    LOL Good idea! Mr. Kennedy, would you like to field this question?



    Linda
  6. by   pkmom
    Yep, I was hoping to get those crazy boys opinions.

    Hey guys, are you out there?
  7. by   kennedyj
    well boys and Girls,

    it all boils down to what is considered socially acceptible on the basis or gender roles. Women are considered to be caring, warm, considerate. They can find comfort in finding other caring touchy feely women and talk about touchy feely things. Some are afraid of getting it rough. They can also satisfy each other by knowing those special places that turn each other on. Guys will always get their business done so why would they need to turn to their own sex. It wouldnt make any sense.

    It is also trendy to be female and homosexual. Where I grew up you would get beat up for such a thing. Maybe there should be more male OB nurses to benefit women and understand them better. Just the thought of a guy turns my stomach. ewwww.
    Last edit by kennedyj on Dec 4, '01
  8. by   wildtime88
    This is hard to put into words.

    Guys like to fondle breasts and lesbians like to fondle breast. Guys like to explore women and lesbians like to explore other women. In many ways, we can relate and share in the experience. So in many ways, it is a mutual attraction and turn on kind of thing going on.

    Now there are is a lot of difference between two ugly women and two beautiful women together.

    Does this help with your question.
  9. by   WashYaHands
    Wow, Kennedy, I'm impressed with your insight into the female psyche. That among other things is what makes you a wonderful OB/L&D nurse and why you'll be successful as a CNM.

    Of course, I'm sure when you were in school you studied with a group of highly outspoken and opinionated women who helped you to understand female psychology. Very good Grasshoppah! LOL


    Linda
  10. by   Ariko
    My son was in his early teens, when he started looking at porn. The stuff he was getting through the grapevine was garbage, viewing women as objects, mindless, slutty, etc. so I got him some nicer porn. No Virginia, this is not an oxymoron. One day when he was feeling communicative he said that he did not mind seeing women with women, but he felt jealous when he saw a woman with a man. This could be alpha-male issues, or just that he would feel comfortable with two women, but very awkward with a man in the picture. Contradictory feelings about homophobia are not unusual.
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  12. by   Stargazer
    First off: Ariko, you bought your teenage son "better" porn? You must be the coolest mom ever.

    As to the "girl-on-girl" issue: my theory is, it's simple mathematics. With guys, more is always better. Therefore, 2 bare asses and 4 naked breasteses are twice as good.
  13. by   kennedyj
    wow. when I grew up I always had to hide my playboy mags. But Ariko your right. Kids are going to be curious about stuff, its better that they feel trust in you than to get all the info from their friends. Your son probably can also talk with you more openly than many im sure.
  14. by   kennedyj
    Originally posted by WashYaHands

    Of course, I'm sure when you were in school you studied with a group of highly outspoken and opinionated women who helped you to understand female psychology.
    Linda
    Lol. you know it. Especially those long days the group would get together to study and also studying (drinking) for the NCLEX....LOL.....remember

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