very off topic, please help.....

  1. I have a e-mail friend that I have been chatting with for 2 years, she has always seems nice and normal
    today she asked me for nude pictures of my children and said that it is very normal in the USA to take that kind of photos..
    I told her no and she was very hurt ..
    what I am wondering is could it be true .. could she really be thinking her request is ok ? is this done in the states?
    right now I have her pegged as dangerous but it doesn't make sense.. isn't two years an awfully long time to talk to someone daily to try to fool then ???
    thanks for your help
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  3. by   Diana in Sweden
    I have a e-mail friend that I have been chatting with for 2 years, she has always seems nice and normal
    today she asked me for nude pictures of my children and said that it is very normal in the USA to take that kind of photos..
    I told her no and she was very hurt ..
    what I am wondering is could it be true .. could she really be thinking her request is ok ? is this done in the states?
    right now I have her pegged as dangerous but it doesn't make sense.. isn't two years an awfully long time to talk to someone daily to try to fool them ???
    thanks for your help
  4. by   duckie
    I've lived in the USA for all of my 46 years and if anyone asked me that question, even at my daughters current age, they'd get a swift kick in the rump! NO, NO, NO, this is not an acceptable thing and I'd dump this person very fast! There are nuts everywhere. Please be careful. Duckie
  5. by   Diana in Sweden
    thank you duckie
    I am so hurt ..this person was part of my life .. she runs a menstrual support group that I have had much help from ...
    this hurts big time
  6. by   CoffeeRTC
    Call the police NOW! This is not done in the USA. !!
  7. by   Diana in Sweden
    don't know who she is really .. just have her yahoo name .. thank you though .. you have comfirmed my feeling .. I am so sad about this ... I trusted her ... 2 years without a sign of anything fishy and now this .. I am so hurt
  8. by   VickyRN
    Wants to draw you into a child pornography ring, it seems. Lot of sick, sick people in the world.
  9. by   prmenrs
    report her to yahoo, if you can: I'm pretty sure they won't tolerate that, and WILL be able to report her. That is definetly NOT ok. Sorry it happened to you.
  10. by   Diana in Sweden
    she runs a support group on yahoo ... there are minors there .. I am so upset... this is so scarey..
  11. by   SingingNurse2
    Diana, not only is it not normal - it is very ILLEGAL in the United States to exploit children in such a manner. I am so sorry you are being put in this situation.
  12. by   CoffeeRTC
    YOu can still call the police. They have a way to find people. I second calling yahoo too. Please call them!
  13. by   Diana in Sweden
    it is very abnormal here and illegal and I could not fanthom it being normal anywhere really.. I think I just needed to hear it to comfirm what I am feeling.. this is so frightening ... I am concidering oposting to the group and telling them what happened .. then they an decide from there .. I will be leaving the group of course but I feel I should warn the others especialy the minors
  14. by   Diana in Sweden
    ok .. going to the group home to alert them then checking yahoo
    oh this hurts hurts hurts ... my trust is so betrayed .. she has seen photos of my children.. fully clothed thank heaven but still .... I am shaking
    thank you all so much

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