Too Much Time On One's Hands A Problem For You???

  1. Okay.....I got an email from someone on this BB who shared with me that if I were on this BB less, working and making lots of money, I would NOT have time to think about not having enough sex.

    So......as my mind often does.....I thought this would make for a great topic of discussion which is why I'm bringing this topic to your attention.

    I'll start first, then you can share your own thoughts about your own life......leave mine alone.....

    Okay....first of all, I am very actively involved in my military community. I even do things for others that are not connected with the military here in the S.A. area. I am a writer, and have written two manuscripts, and am in the process of editing them both.....draw my own illustrations too. That keeps me very busy.

    I begin each day with prayer and devotions. I perform my daily hygiene like every one else who loves to smell good......and I even have time to eat, snack, take walks with my doggie, talk on the phone on occasion, go to the mall, shop with friends, go to movies, and all that other human stuff that consumes so much of our daily agendas.

    I have over 5,100 post here at Allnurses because I love coming here, but it is certainly NOT my only enjoyment in life.

    I have my own website that is private. The membership only consists of Christian Women....that's the way I wanted it for many reasons I do not need to express here. Like Brian, I spend time building my own website. I do it for the Glory of God.....and for that reason only.

    I think about sex and making love with my spouse because it is a perfectly natural and healthy thing for any woman or husband to do. SEX was NOT designed by man, but by God Almighty, therefore, it is only natural and healthy for me to think about it, and to DO it as often as possible with the one I married.

    I told the person who sent me that "PM" that even when I worked in nursing 12 - 14 hours a day, the first thing I did when I got home from work was take a shower and make myself smell good so I could make love with my husband. I just love making love......period.

    Even when I was a young mom raising three extremely active children, and doing all the things moms do for their families, and working part- time, and going to college full time......I still craved making out with my husband. Not only did I crave making out with him, I DID make out with him as often as possible. As a wife...twice, I have never said "NO" to either of my husbands when they wanted to make love, and I gave them anything and everything they asked for during our love sessions. Nuff said on that!


    So, you see, it is not "boredom" that makes me horny.....it's my genetic make-up...if you will.

    So...how about you?
    Last edit by live4today on Oct 13, '02
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  2. 27 Comments

  3. by   Robin61970
    I think that the person who had the audacity to write that is just plain rude......my opinion, but it would have pi$$ed me off and I hope that you told them what you thought of that!
  4. by   Love-A-Nurse
    well, you are a good lady my dear friend, because i wouldn't justify why i did or did not want to have sex with my husband to the person who emailed you or other wise.

    i don't post on topic such as these because my sex life is my private business and i do respect others if they so choose to discuss it here.

    let me tell you something renee, i admire you for being real and pray that all works out for you and your husband.

    like i said in another post, be still, and know the voice of the lord. he will direct your path.

    by the way, the person who emailed you have way too much time on their hand, if you ask me.
  5. by   nursegoodguy
    On an average I work 56 hours a week and made, (what I consider), quite a bit of money last year!
    Guess what... I also enjoy this BB and LOVE SEX!
  6. by   live4today
    Awwwwwww.........thanks you lovable siblings you! :blushkiss

    I am so glad to be a part of such a wonderful site as Allnurses!

    No matter what our beliefs, we all can come together and show our love to one another...support one another...be there and respond as necessary...as desired...to get each other over the hump of life that is NOT going anywhere. Life is full of humps...painfully sore ones at times.....yet, together we can overcome many obstacles in life. You all here at Allnurses have proven that to me time and time again. I love you because of who you are, for all you are......your differences, your quirks, your own personal take on life, and so much more. Those things make each of us who we are.....and why try to be anything we are not? Stay true to yourselves, and I'll always stay true to myself, and together we will stay true to each other. :kiss
  7. by   Lausana
    Oh Well! That's what I think The great thing about anything that anyone posts is that I can bet someone else feels the exact same way, maybe they just didn't know how to ask or share it. So keep posting away...I think someone's just mad they're not the top poster :chuckle
  8. by   rebelwaclause
    originally posted by love-a-nurse
    well, you are a good lady my dear friend, because i wouldn't justify why i did or did not want to have sex with my husband to the person who emailed you or other wise.

    i don't post on topic such as these because my sex life is my private business and i do respect others if they so choose to discuss it here.

    let me tell you something renee, i admire you for being real and pray that all works out for you and your husband.

    like i said in another post, be still, and know the voice of the lord. he will direct your path.

    by the way, the person who emailed you have way too much time on their hand, if you ask me.
    ^5 love-a-nurse. couldn't have said it better!. are you taking notes renee? :kiss
  9. by   JonRN
    All I wanna know is who was it? C'mon Renee don't keep it secret, who was it? The nerve of that person. This is an outrage.

    Pappy
  10. by   SmilingBluEyes
    ain't nothing wrong w/you Renee, that needs fixing. The people who DO need fixing are that PM'er and your husband, just in my humble opinion. Hey, I **wish** my drive were like yours. I say that dh of yours is one lucky (and clueless) guy. Do NOT change a thing; you are passionate, intelligent, wise and so sweet. Ignore the PM; it was in poor taste and likely someone looking in a MIRROR when they wrote it. You know how it can be. Worry not about yourself.

    Debbie, Who has no life herself these days :-(
    Last edit by SmilingBluEyes on Oct 13, '02
  11. by   shygirl
    Renee,

    WHO WAS IT??????

    You are a good person Renee. You should not have to defend youself to anyone!

    Shygirl
  12. by   BadBird
    OMG, who the HE_L had the nerve to write to you like that !!!
    I love reading your posts and would miss them so who ever wrote to you and felt compelled to tell you how to run your life, BACK OFF !!!!!!!!
  13. by   nursenoelle
    ((((((((((Renee)))))))))))......people can be so tacky!

    .............Don't ever change girl!
  14. by   live4today
    what's that line in that scary freaky kind of a movie that the girl in the psyche hospital says:

    i ' l l l never tee llllllll!!! :d :chuckle

    as much as i love all of you, i will not reveal to anyone who that person was (except the one person i already shared it with here). i do not operate that way loved ones.

    now.....back to the topic at hand.....to all who applied with love and caring hearts....thank you! i feel so much better knowing i am here with all of you. :kiss

    now....share with me anything that comes to your mind here. i love hearing from anyone who wants to chat with me on this thread, or any other. it makes me grow and grow and grow.....:d

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