Do you think he told the truth about being divorced? I've had dates in the past where men always were "divorced" or "about to be divorced"...later found out they were very very married and divorce was not on the horizon.
I'll never forget the one man I met who told me he was divorced several years, and was just getting back into the swing of dating again as he was very wounded by the ending of his marriage. Hated to leave the kiddoes and all. Yeah, sure he did!
Then one Sunday after church, my children and I went to this mall near our town. Lo and behold....who do you think I saw snuggling up to a woman who was holding an infant in arms while he pushed a stroller with two other children in it.
That's right! Mr. Divorced and Severely Wounded himself.
What do you think I did after spotting him with the family? That's right! I walked over to them, introduced myself to the woman...just in case she wasn't his wife, but a friend. He QUICKLY introduced her as his loving wife, introduced the kiddoes to me. I said hello, and got out of there quick. I'm sure she asked him later who I was.
The ending of this drama ended in a phone call later that night from him telling me he lied about being divorced, and how sorry he was for lying to me. I told him if I ever saw him trying to cheat on his wife again in a club that we both met in or anywhere else for that matter that I would personally see to it that she found him out.
Apparently she caught on to his cheating lying ways because it wasn't long before she called my telephone number and asked me who I was. I told her I met her husband in a club some time ago, and he told me he was broken hearted over a painful divorce several years earlier and missed his children terribly. She said, "Is that right?" I said, Yes, maam, and I promise to tell you if I see him cheating on you again. I even told her the club he frequented. Hmmmm...wonder if she finally gave him that "painful divorce where he really ended up missing his kids". :chuckle Serves him right, if she did....LOSER!!!
I learned from that experience to always ask a man who told me he was divorced to show me the papers of proof of his divorce. If they said they were "just separated", I'd say, when...since breakfast?
Yes, ladies, there are true dogs who wanna be players in life, but as that man got caught, so will those who try playing his game on women while the wife is at home with the kiddoes.