Something to say to you guys

  1. I realize some of you are through following my tale of woe or just didn't feel the need to respond anymore so I wanted to put my last response on that thread on a new one so that you guys would see it....I felt it was important for you guys to read....Thanks again.....


    This was the last response I put up......


    Thanks I.rae, the support of others whether near or far means so much to me right now. You guys on this board have no idea how much you have helped me through this ordeal. Coming here everyday and reading the positive statements from everyone has really helped to keep my spirits boosted and this has helped more than I can ever put in to words. Thank you all so much. I only cried once yesterday......it's getting better. And then I cried because i saw him for the first time since he left. I didn't let him see me cry....I smiled and flirted and joked around with him until he left and then I cried. BUT only for about 5 minutes then I told myself that was enough. I think I already told you guys this, but I'm not positive.....my sons school counselor and I talked yesterday and she is seeing him and setting him up with a psychologist through WACGC to come out to the school and help him deal with this....he is a very sensitive child and I am worried about him. My daughter is being very resielient(sp?) and only asks about daddy a couple of times a day......the old saying that which does not kill us will make us stronger applies here because this will definitely make me a stronger person........I love all you guys for helping me through this.....I could have eventually been okay, but you guys made it so much easier to bear......Thank you again
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  2. 36 Comments

  3. by   NurseDianne
    HANG TOUGH! (((Robin))))
  4. by   JonRN
    Thanks for keeping us up to date Robin. We are all pulling for you and sending positive vibes your way.
  5. by   researchrabbit
    Robin, I know (from experience) that things will continue to get better. You are doing the right thing with the counselor (and even though your daughter is resilient, you may want to see that she gets at least one visit -- just because our daughters don't always tell us moms everything).

    Pain is easier if you can talk about it, and sometimes it is difficult to find someone to talk about it with. Keep us posted.
  6. by   spineCNOR
    Ditto to what the above posters said. Robin, I wish there was a way we could lessen the tremendous pain you and your children are in. It's hard to believe right now, but time will help, so just take care of yourself and your children one day at a time as best you can. Sending good wishes for a better future for you.:kiss

    And please keep us posted on how you are doing.
  7. by   Nurse Izzy
    Heartfelt thoughts and prayers continue from me, too. Hang in there - you will make it...
  8. by   nursedawn67
    Hang in there Robin!
  9. by   duckie
    You can come to us anytime. That's what we are here for!!!! At least I think so! Hugs to you, Duckie
  10. by   nursegoodguy
    Hey you're stronger already!
    I think this time in our lives is just extremely stressful with everything that is going on in the world and it has an effect on our personal lives in a BIG way!
    I say let's go back to about 1976!
  11. by   legsmalone
    (((((((((Robin))))))))))
    Be strong, don't hesitate if you need to vent
  12. by   Mkue
    Take Care Robin !

    carpe diem
  13. by   emily_mom
    You are in our thoughts...please hang in there!!!

    Kristy
  14. by   Robin61970
    Trying....just spent four hours at my moms for a mini family thing....wow...I have a headache,LOL

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