Sex versus intimacy

  1. Love is gently caressing your cheek, running my fingers through your hair, the look in my eye that tells you, I love you and then a soft, gently kiss on your unparted lips... The calm before the storm...
    But then when our lips open and I feel the moistness of your tongue against mine and I pull you closer to me wanting to drink you in, feeling the heat of your body against mine... the gentle caressing becomes more of a forceful pulling of clothing, a thrusting motion of our bodies until our flesh meet as one in a violent storm of passion...
    And when the storm calms... I softly caress your cheek...
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  2. 35 Comments

  3. by   live4today
    I'm just weak in the knees right now, bruthaman! Whew!!! Did somebody just turn up the heat in here, or what? :blushkiss

    Do you suppose you could like be in love with a woman right now? Cause, if that is how passionate you are, man could I be good to you.

    I'll be back in a bit after I go take a bubble bath and cool down...or warm up...whichever the occasion may call for! :wink2: The juices are flowing from that post you just wrote! Hep me Laud! (fanning myself now) :chuckle
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  5. by   Robin61970
    Man I scrolled down real quick and thought Renee said something about on her knees...had to do a double take,lol
  6. by   shygirl
    Originally posted by nursegoodguy
    Love is gently caressing your cheek, running my fingers through your hair, the look in my eye that tells you, I love you and then a soft, gently kiss on your unparted lips... The calm before the storm...
    But then when our lips open and I feel the moistness of your tongue against mine and I pull you closer to me wanting to drink you in, feeling the heat of your body against mine... the gentle caressing becomes more of a forceful pulling of clothing, a thrusting motion of our bodies until our flesh meet as one in a violent storm of passion...
    And when the storm calms... I softly caress your cheek...
    That's nice Giuseppe!
  7. by   nursegoodguy
    Originally posted by Robin61970
    Man I scrolled down real quick and thought Renee said something about on her knees...had to do a double take,lol
    :roll :roll

    So where is the line drawn between intimacy and sex...
    Does one lead to the other and is that a bad thing or a good thing...
  8. by   SmilingBluEyes
    I guess it depends on who you ask, guiseppe. To ME there can be NO sex w/o intimacy.....but i can definately have intimacy w/o sex......it's called close friendship...and yes, i can draw a steady line that works for me................................

    ...yet to others, one need not be intimate to enjoy sex. whatever floats the boat. i think that is sad. my life would be empty w/o intimacy in it. and i am only imtimate w/ a handful of people who i feel worthy enough to allow into my innermost sanctum.
  9. by   nursegoodguy
    I agree! Although I have had sex for the sake of sex before but intimacy on its own with the right person is so... When it's the right person it is so... Yeah that's how I get... can't think, talk or type!
  10. by   rebelwaclause
    Oooooo, y'all simulating da nasty in here....! Im'ma TELLLLLL!!!!!!!!
  11. by   Stargazer
    Depends on how you define "intimacy", also. I think it's possible to be intimate--and sexual--with someone without being IN LOVE with them--the "friends with benefits" scenario would be a good example of that.
  12. by   OBNURSEHEATHER
    Hmmm.... good question Giuseppe.

    I guess I think of intimacy as more of the moments we share that are unique to us. The way I can answer a question before he asks it, the way we look at each other at the same time at the funny part of a movie, the way he places his hand on the small of my back in boring places like the grocery store.

    But in the bedroom.....

    I'm not a rose petals and candle light kind of girl.

    Heather
  13. by   nursegoodguy
    Originally posted by OBNURSEHEATHER
    Hmmm.... good question Giuseppe.

    I guess I think of intimacy as more of the moments we share that are unique to us. The way I can answer a question before he asks it, the way we look at each other at the same time at the funny part of a movie, the way he places his hand on the small of my back in boring places like the grocery store.

    But in the bedroom.....

    I'm not a rose petals and candle light kind of girl.

    Heather
    Yeah I know what kind of girl you are... Get out the chocolate!
  14. by   live4today
    Originally posted by Robin61970
    Man I scrolled down real quick and thought Renee said something about on her knees...had to do a double take,lol
    :chuckle :roll :chuckle :roll Awwww shucks! I can't keep a secret from you, Robin! :kiss

    Nighty night ya'll! Beeeeeeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaaaave now!

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