Hi all, I have a situation which may seem silly to you but I am a little worried about. One of my very best friends, my roommate actually, seems to be starting to base her self-worth on the fact that she is somewhat overweight. She is one of the smartest and kindest people that I know but lately she says quite often "I'm too fat for that" "That's because I'm fat" "I wish I weren't so fat" etc. as if that makes her worse of a person. In a kind of joking tone but not exactly. I don't know what to say. I almost feel guilty that I am not overweight. I want to approach this some sensitive way but I don't know what to say. I apologize because I am not sure my point is coming across clearly but maybe you will be able to figure it out anyhow. If not let me know and I will try to clarify.