Hey folks, don't get me wrong. I know I have hubby's love, respect, and faithfullness. This woman has told so many lies for so long to so many that I do get angry. No one can truly fight a lier, you just have to live the life and pray for the lier. But the human side of me, the butt kicking, beer drinking, girl from the right side of the holler does come out sometimes. I was raised to take care of my own and look after business, so sometimes, I just want to put on my boots and kick.
Sad part is stepdaughter, she is so upset, feels like mother is pulling her into this mess, even though she tries and tries to stay clear of it. She has called her Dad and me several times, just in the last few weeks crying. I don't have the whole story, don't really want it, but I do know that several people will be hurt before the latest escapade the "EX" pulls is over.
I was careful to plan visits with stepdaughter and grandkids, so this woman could feel like a grandmother and mother too. I just recently found out she has not visited but twice in two years to see her own daugher but used daughter as an excuse to see new fellow. I won't tell stepdaughter to go to her stepfather and tell him all she has found out. Not my business, but I do understand the hurt and pressure she is under. This man was a pretty good stepfather, given the situation and her mother's feelings, to my stepdaughter, he is really a nice man and I like him, but he should have been more mindful of his wife's coming and going's. She even tried to use hubby's cardiac surgery as an excuse. Said she wanted to be close to daughter in case hubby died. Come to find out, she spent the weekend in a motel with "friend" and after daughter went home asked her to tell stepfather she was with her. Now, people, I feel like I am sort of in this when she bring hubby into the picture. Afterall, I was there and there constantly for days, so if I am ever asked, what do I say?
Trouble is, everyone here knows everyone else and usually what is going on. I can't say I want people to think she has been coming around, giving support to hubby or me or daughter. People who have been around know the truth, but things get twisted easily. She even stopped by physical therapy yesterday, did not see hubby, nor me, but was asking what days he took therapy. Girl at the window told her that was HIPPA and if she needed to know she would have to ask us. I was coming around the corner and heard the whole thing. I almost jumped her bones, but I ducked into a little alcove when I heard her walking out the door. My question is, what does she want to know his therapy days for? Is she going to tell present hubby some lie? All of this is getting too deep and too mysterious for common people.
Anyway, I will just keep on watching the situation until I am truly pressed to the wall. God listens and He has laid it upon my heart and soul to pray for her and see that she needs help, the psychiatric kind, so I am trusting He will take care of the problem. Thanks for the support and allowing me to vent. Sometimes I feel like this is Peyton Place revisited. LOL
I hope everyone has a blessed and safe weekend. :angel2: