But when a guy you're dating calls you house on a saturday night, and sounds drunk, professes his undying love for you, says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, and all that gushy stuff, and THEN says (after i brought it up) "oh i was drunk and i don't rmember saying that" then changes the subject, it tests your patience in the dating world.
That WAS my boyfriend that did that, the weekend before memorial day. He'd left a message on my answering machine, since i was at work. Then when i asked about it, he acted like it was nothing, and kinda got an ******* attitude for the rest of the conversation. And so did i, by saying i wasn't a person to be jerked around, nor would a stick around and allow myself to be done like that again. Told him the ball was in his court if he ever wanted to speak to me again, and IF i would even GIVE him the time of day, he'd have to try his *** off to get me back, and that we're officially over. I didn't call him, etc. i just went on my merry way doing whatever i wanted.
'Whatever i wanted' wound up being a 'blind date' (normally a bad idea) on a Sunday evening at a wings bar, which turned into a midnight drive on country roads for the heck of it, breakfast the next day along with a walk in the park, and watching TV at my house (a 60 hour date, and yes i 'behaved' myself ).
Second date wound up being a trip to Charlottesville to walk around at the outdoor mall, breakfast the next morning (still 'behaved' myself)
and a trip to the indoor mall (where i treated myself to a few new clothes, and a couple of belly rings), going to his place to pack a few things, driving back to my house to pack, then going to FayetteCo., WV, since Class VI's (a whitewater rafting company) reunion was this weekend, coming back to my house that night to sleep (still 'behaved' myself),
and going to Charlottesville again.
So he's at work, and technically we're still on our second date. I'm going back home this evening, since i start nursing orientation tomorrow for my new job.
I don't think i'm completely off the beam here, he's a great guy (so far, course i said that about the last one too), and i definately want to keep seeing him. He's just indescribable, COURTEOUS, SWEET, words just don't describe someone like this, so someone must have raised him right!
Heck of a graduation present though!!!