Ok, so here's my thing.........I'm an organ donor, on paper. Recently a friend of mine, who happens to be a very brittle diab. has run into even more serious health problems. She's 35, is scheduled for a heart cath next week and is looking at kidney failure..........she also has two small children.
I told her, and mean it from the bottom of my heart, that I would be tested as a possible kidney donor. And I still will if and when needed.
The problem is.........I spoke w/ Gary (my hunny) and told him my plans. He hit the roof! How dare I do such a thing w/o consulting him first! Well now........THAT just pissed me on off.......
...........but he is totally serious.
He said that if it were a relative it wouldn't be such an ordeal, but since he married me and intended for me to be around for a very long time, why in the world would I put myself at risk for "a friend".
My question to ya'll is this........How would you react? I'm just curious, my mind hasn't be changed, he just po'd me to the max and probably won't get any this weekend.
Just looking for insight!