I was being stalked. This guy that asked me out like 2 years ago (I told him no) Since he saw me at my work place, (he stared at me the entire time he was in there, causing me to go out back because I felt very uncomfortable) Friday, when I was working, I found out from 2 very trustworthy people and also my work manager that this guy has been going into my work place trying to get my work schdule.
He also goes in almost everynight looking for me. He talks to his brother who I work with and trys to get my schdule from him. Well, I went to the manager and asked about it and he confirmed it.
Sooooo.....my guy friend called and just told this guy that he had been hearing that he has been trying to get my schdule and has gone in to look for me and what not. He basically told this stalker guy that if he found out that it happened it again, then we would be calling the police.
Well. The stalker called the cops yesterday and said that my friend threatened his life.....WHATEVER YOU LITTLE WIMP!!! Anywho........cops call my mom.....which we don't see the point to. My mom FREAKS out, calls my friends mom says that the cops are going to tap their phone lines.....blah blah blah......
So, I get to my friends house, call my mom to find out what's going on. She wants us to go to the police station so that I can put on a restraining order on this guy to keep him away from me. Cops say that they can't do that unless the guy actually physically harms me or threatens me........(ok so, my mom has to wait until the guy kills me for them to do something) WHATEVER! I just want to feel safe. I don't feel safe. I don't want to go into public by myself. This guy is sick and could seriously try to do something. He comes from a long line of welll........sick-o's.
I just don't have any trust for this guy. It makes me sick to think about him and this whole situation. When my mom freaked out, I just broke down. I couldn't stand to be around her because she just made me feel worse, and she made it so hard for me to stay calm. I know she is just worried for me but, it would of helped if she could of stayed calm.
I am just really afraid of being by myself. I have pepper spray, but that dosn't make me feel any more safe
. I feel so emotionally drained, I'm tired, feel so sick to my stomach......I wish I had body guards.........but I don't......... I don't understand why the guy just didn't come up to me and ask me if I had a boyfriend or something, then stopped. But, I know that isn't what he wants to know. He just want's to look.........
People like this SUCK!!!
That felt good to vent.....................