need to vent

  1. I just need some time to vent about my boyfriend.........he got laid off right before christmas and now he is home ALL of the time. All I here is "I'm bored, what can we do?" I swear he is bipolar. I love him to death but he needs to do something, anything! Somehow I managed to get him out of the house tonight without me (by the grace of god, no less) Otherwise he would be standing here over my shoulder reading what I'm typing which really tends to p!$$ me off.

    My friends tell me it is just my fear of commitment, seeing how we've been together for 2years, friends for 3years before that. Talk of the big "M" word has came up and he has asked about my "ring preferences".

    I just need some advice, is it my fear of commitment, or that Chris just needs to go back to work(SOON)!!!!!!!!!!!
  2. 2 Comments

  3. by   SmilingBluEyes
    I don't know, I dont' live in your skin and there is too little information here. I ask: what does your heart of hearts say? Or as Dr. Phil always asks:

    "how's it working for you?"

    if you answer these questions honestly, you will see very CLEARLY what you need to do, if you are brave enough. Good luck to you. Life is VERY short.
  4. by   Tweety
    Well if it were me, I'd be singing that old song..."you gotta have a j. o. b. if you wanna be with me". Then I'd think about it.

    But also five years together? Why or why not? is what you need to ask yourself.