These darn teenage girls are SO high maintenance!!!
OK, this is the situation. My dtr used to hang out w a girl a lot the beginning of this summer. Her mother is a lovely person, and I have gotten to be friendly with her, not girlfriends, but we'll chat at games and stuff like that.
My dtr tells me today, that the friend told her she is probably going to sleep with her boyfriend as a gift on his birthday, in early November. I think this is tragic, b/c this particular boy has even called this girl ugly in front of all her friends, has demeaned her, and been in juvie already for threatening kids in school, told one girl he was going to cut her up. He was removed from school, middle school, for that one, but for some reason was allowed to come back this year.
It seems this girl is "in love" with this "bad boy" and I have seen her here when Kris has had her and some boys over to watch a movie, or whatever, and she has behaved like a total Ho at times. She seems to desperately be seeking make attention.
If you were me, would you tell her mother? If you were her mother, or father, would you want to know?
Help, I am so torn. I don't want to see this girl end up used, and tossed aside, or get pregnant, or worse. But not sure telling her mother would make a bity of difference, and it would be certain to make things bad for Kris. Advice please!!!