my life seems to be resembling a bad episode of 90210 these days (is there such a thing as a good episode of 90210?) well if you take away all the beautiful tanned people, tori spelling
and the corny themesong then you get a faint resemblance to the situation....
confused? well so am I!
as most of you know, (I whined and cried about this 4 months ago when it happened) my ex boyfriend ended our relationship because I was "too busy, not spending enough time with him, didnt like the way things were going" yadda yadda yadda. not gonna lie , it was ROUGH, I was really down for awhile, felt like I lost my best friend ..
then as time went on the old cliche really did ring true, time heals all wounds , I'm feeling happier than I have in awhile, feel like my life is just that MY Life, dont get into petty arguments about whether to go see the latest jackie chan movie or the newest romantic comedy, dont have to bust out the fancy bra and underwear as often (though I still do , ahhh hope springs eternal I suppose hehe) , so lately my ex has been calling me and emailing me etc, apparently "missing me" well you cant blame him for that now can ya?? I mean , I'm nice enough, smart enough cute enough and gosh darnit ppl like me!
the other big eureka moment I had was realizing that there are other people out there who could make me happy and who possess all the qualities I'm looking for in a person (humour , kindness, and a big whopping............brain)
as much as I would love to be "friends" again, go to central perk for a cofee and live in the apartment next to his with my closest 2 girlfriends, I just dont see how you can do it....
so have you been friends with an ex? or is the friendship with an ex deal just a whole heap of hooey psychobabble???
to me , he cant have his cake and eat wendles too
errrr that came out wrong, well sorta wrong..
Harry met Sally this isnt , but still, I *do* miss the friendship , but am in this semi exciting (not really exciting at the moment, but potentially exciting) phase of life...........
so friendship with a former boyfriend/girlfriend , is it a good idea, or should I run run run the other way (okay , not run, afterall its me were talking about , but walk at a fast pace perhaps!)