My life changed in 10 seconds....hubby called me as soon as class let out

  1. and said.....I took the boys bunk desk and computer and the entertainment center....I'm leaving you. He had planned to pick me up from school and tell me, but got called out of town and wanted to tell me before I got home and saw these things gone. He said he had not been happy for a long time and that when he tried to talk to me we fought and I didn't listen....I never saw this coming. I love him more than I can even describe and haven't stopped crying since 3 heart is in pieces. I did something I have never done before...I begged him to stay...I begged him to give me another chance and told him I would do anything he wanted me to do.....he said no. We have talked a few times since that conversation and while we are not getting back together we are going to talk and see if maybe things may work out....I hope.....I am just so hurt....4th week of nursing school and my only source of support just left....I have no money.....this is rough. Mom wants us to get a 4 bedroom house and try that way....she said there is no way I am dropping out. Please say lots of prayers for me........I need them.
  2. 173 Comments

  3. by   NurseDennie

    You've got 'em


  4. by   EmeraldNYL
    Robin, this stinks. So sorry for what you're going through. Don't let this stop you from reaching your goals though, you can make it through nursing school somehow. Sending hugs your way...
  5. by   deespoohbear
    Robin, I don't know what to say.....{{{{{Robin}}}}}

    Definitely will be praying for you....:kiss
  6. by   Zee_RN
    Oh, Robin, I'm sooo sorry! Prayers being said for you right now for strength and healing and peace of mind.

  7. by   Robin61970
    Thing is....I just want him to walk in and say I was wrong.....I would help him move his stuff back in if he did...I wouldn't even hesitate.....thanks guys.....
  8. by   passing thru
    My niece's hubby did the same thing. As it turned out, he had a hunny he 'd met at the gym. Niece didn't see it coming either.
  9. by   Mkue
    Robin, my heart goes out to you, that is so sad. I hope things work out for the best !

  10. by   cargal
    I'll be thinking of you. Keep us posted how you are doing. I am so sorry.
  11. by   Stargazer
    To blindside you like that--I don't even have the words. Well, I do, but I'd probably get banned.

    Robin, honey, I am so sorry. Your mom is absolutely right. Do whatever you have to to stay in school.

    Vent as much as you need to. Wish I could give you a hug in person. Please let us know how we can help.
  12. by   Lausana
    Oh Robin My prayers coming your way tonight...what a "crappy" way of doing this!! Could this have something to do with you just starting the program? (meaning your lives have changed) I agree with your mom, definitely do what you guys can to stay in school.

    ((Robin)) Here when you need anyone.
    Last edit by Lausana on Jan 28, '03
  13. by   OzNurse69

    That is terrible -- remember to take care of yourself.

    Gut feeling says, there is more to this than what he is telling you. You may eventually find out the whole story, you may never, but please remember that this is HIS problem -- it is NOT YOUR FAULT!! He doesn't realise what he is letting go.....
  14. by   NurseGirlKaren
    Thinking of your best to hang in there.