MY friends, VERY BAD NEWS....

  1. I was spotting Friday night on my shift (remember I told of my pregnancy, which was nearly 8 weeks and appeared to be going NORMALLY). Anyhow, since I miscarried last March, I thought it to be prudent to go to ER. Come to find out, it was not only prudent, but lifesaving. They Did emergency lap/surgery to remove a 5 CM PREGNANCY (yes, you read right, 5 CENTIMETERS!) from my left oviduct. HOW I WAS NOT IN PAIN, is unknown. why I was asymptomatic is a mystery. The only symptom was light spotting. The reason they did the lap was they could not visualize a pregnancy in the uterus but saw"something" in a tube, proximal to the ovary. Anyhow, the doctors said if left alone much longer it would ruptured, severely compromising my life, obviously. Well, after emergency D and C and open lap to remove the pregnancy, and the whole tube ruptured and bled all into my cul-de-sac, they say. To say I am in unbelievable pain physically and emotionally is an understatement.

    I am trying to be positive here.....I am alive, have my two wonderful kids and dh...and I have my life. I will be ok in a while. So, if I disappear a while, I am sure you all understand. I am just sad beyond words....I was led to believe all was well and now this....anyhow enough of my sob story. I only wish this were not a TRUE story. Take care all. I will be back, when I am in a frame of mind where I am strong. I am just not strong right now. Why after all this, did this have to happen, I wish I knew.....anyhow....thanks for caring.-----deb:kiss
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  2. 75 Comments

  3. by   shygirl
    (((((((((Debbie))))))))

    My heart goes out to you. I will say a prayer for your family and you. God Bless You!
    Shygirl
  4. by   Beach_RN
    ((((((((((((Debbie))))))))))))

    I'm so sorry!

    Sending prayers your way!

    Brenda
  5. by   KaraLea
    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. :kiss
  6. by   LasVegasRN
    My gosh, Debbie!!
    My heart goes out to you. Take the time you need, we'll be here waiting for you.

    (((((((((((((((( DEBBIE ))))))))))))))))))))))
  7. by   sunnygirl272
    Originally posted by LasVegasRN
    My gosh, Debbie!!
    My heart goes out to you. Take the time you need, we'll be here waiting for you.

    (((((((((((((((( DEBBIE ))))))))))))))))))))))
    ditto that.
  8. by   finallyRN
    (((((((Debbie))))))). So sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
  9. by   aimeee
    So sorry to hear things turned out this way and that you are hurting. But I am glad that your life was spared. ((((((Debbie))))) Healing thoughts your way.
  10. by   prn nurse
    Sorry to hear it. Take care and give yourself lots of time to heal................... in every way.

    Thank God we live in a place and time where we have lifesaving technological equipment and skilled doctors.

    (((((((HUGS)))))))
  11. by   moonchild20002000
    ((((((((((((((((Debbie)))))))))))))))))))))


    I am so sorry this has happened to you. I know you are in terrible emotional pain...we are here if you need us.
  12. by   deespoohbear
    Sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for you and your family.


    Becky
  13. by   Mkue
    Very sorry Debbie
  14. by   susanmary
    Very sorry to hear of your profound loss. Prayers are being sent to your entire family.

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