I'm starting this thread for some much needed advice from men and women who are totally opposite in nature when it comes to SEX
Mattsmom's comments about her and her hubby being opposite when it comes to sex (he wants it more, she doesn't want it as much as him) got me to thinking about this subject more because I rarely meet another woman who is like me when it comes to desiring sex as much as a man does.
When I talk to my husband about this subject, he says that he is not "all men", and he does NOT desire sex like the media would have people to believe about men. Why are men and male psychologists always talking about the male need for sex being greater than a woman's need for sex???
Let's Talk About Marital Sex
According to the Bible that I
believe in, God is the creator of sex, and He made sex good and pleasurable between husband and wife. I don't believe that men should be lumped into one category anymore than I believe women should be lumped into one category when it comes to marital sex.
For those of you who are Christians like myself,
It even says in the Bible that husbands and wives are NOT
suppose to deprive one another of sex and pleasure lest they cause their partner to stray, EXCEPT for a time of fasting as agreed upon by both husband and wife, but "come together again" lest you be tempted to also stray. [1 Corinthians Chapter 7]
Any married men and women care to share their views on this subject?
Oct 12, '02
thanks for all the inspiring thoughts and truisms siblings! much obliged! :kiss
regarding the "younger man" issue: adrie
.....an 18 year old couldn't satisfy me when i was 18
, so i'm 100 proof positive that an 18 year old couldn't handle me now.....especially now! come to think of it, when i was 18, i was married to the "older man", so i've never been with an 18 year old in my entire life!
.......you horny bee you! girl after my own hormones!
my first husband was "the older man".....he may as well have been making out with our mattress because he sure never recognized that i mattered. :chuckle
my second spouse (current mate) is a "younger man"...by 12 years, so maybe that isn't "young enough"...ya think? he is a much better lover
than my first husband ever was...however
, i have still
had much better
actually, my best lover was puerto rican...and we were the same age! gosh darnit......i am the one that let him get away, but then he happened into my life two years after my first divorce, and i wasn't very nice towards fellas then. forgive me bill! you were great! :blushkiss
Last edit by live4today on Oct 12, '02