Looking for love in all the wrong places!

  1. Okay, I'm depressing myself when writing this. I am single. As single as they get. Sitting here at home in the internet surrounded by cats on a Saturday night. Will someone just kill me, please!


    I have the cant get a man whose not married, gay or 90 years old blues!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  3. by   hapeewendy
    adrie adrie adrie
    from one single gal to another, also sitting at home on the internet on a saturday night surrounded by a cat
    dont let yourself get down about being single!!
    tricky not to sometimes I know , but the pickle I'm in these days doesnt seem to be any better
    and sometimes I wish that I would just hurry up and get this relationship thing all figured out so that I can get on with life etc!
    that or become a nun (get thee to a nunnary!!!)
    anyway we are young, and its cliche and everyone older tells us that on a daily basis but the truth is , we are young, we have a lot of time, we dont have to settle because we are both wonderful people with so much to give to a person , and hey it takes time for a person worthy to come into your life, dont go giving yourself to someone who isnt worthy!!!
    look at all your good qualities, smart, funny,beautiful, nice , caring, honest etc etc
    of course thats gonna intimidate the heck outta some men, look at it that way!
    I know exactly in vivid detail how you feel
    cept no one in my circle of friends or no one present in my life here has any clue that I'm feeling so alone , partially because I cant bring myself to say the things to someone that need to be said and partly because I have this insane fear that I will end up without someone to spend my days thinking about and my nights snuggling up to...
    stay positive adrie, he's out there
    if youre ever in toronto look me up , we will go out, have fun and find you a man , or find us both some eye candy at the very least!
    chin up pal
  4. by   Hidi74
    Wow I thought it was Just me!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
  5. by   Stargazer
    I don't have a cat (allergic!) but I'm sitting here at home surrounded by tissues and bottles of cough syrup, still trying to kick my cold. Can I join the pity party?
  6. by   Lausana
    Um, I can totally top your nights...I went grocery shopping before sitting at the ole computer tonight Woohoooooo...nothing like a trip to Walmart.

    ...but I'd rather be spending my evening with you goils anyway! :kiss
  7. by   Hooligan
    Okay, I'm depressing myself when writing this. I am single. As single as they get. Sitting here at home in the internet surrounded by cats on a Saturday night. Will someone just kill me, please!
    I'm doing the same thing...an I'm married!

    (((HUGS))) Men aren't all they're cracked up to be! Mine has nightly affairs with the square headed girlfriend he calls his computer!

    The right man will come...and when he does, you'll cherish and appreciate him all the more! So much so, that you can forgive their weak, feeble vidiot minds!

    I'm sorry you're so down right now...do you have any girlfriends close by that you could go out for coffee with? That always makes me feel better...I am very fortunate to have great friends!

    Wishing you well,

    ~Bean:kiss
  8. by   nursejws
    Oh I remember those days. Ladies, don't boo or hiss at what I'm about to say, it's the truth. "Don't look for love." When you look for love you will definitely miss it.
  9. by   nursejws
    Originally posted by bean 76


    I'm doing the same thing...an I'm married!

    ~Bean:kiss
    LoL...and I thought I was the only one!
  10. by   DebsZoo
    originally posted by bean 76


    i'm doing the same thing...an i'm married!

    (((hugs))) men aren't all they're cracked up to be! mine has nightly affairs with the square headed girlfriend he calls his computer!

    the right man will come...and when he does, you'll cherish and appreciate him all the more! so much so, that you can forgive their weak, feeble vidiot minds! :d

    rofl .............. :roll :roll

    bean,
    i know what you mean............and if it isn't the computer, it's the tv, or the couch..................

    adriennnurse.............one day, that one, perfect, for you, man will walk into your life...........and you will find that which you are looking for.
    until that day, enjoy the quiet, cleanliness of just one person in the house, and your freedom to do as you like, when you like
    Last edit by DebsZoo on Aug 31, '02
  11. by   nursejws
    originally posted by debszoo


    rofl .............. :roll :roll

    bean,
    i know what you mean............and if it isn't the computer, it's the tv, or the couch..................

    adriennnurse.............one day, that one, perfect 9for you0 man will walk into your life...........and you will find that which you are looking for.
    until that day, enjoy the quiet, cleanliness of just one person in the house, and your freedom to do as you like, when you like
    amen!!!!! i drive past my "single days" apartment everyday on the way to work...now that's depressing. :chuckle
  12. by   Hooligan
    Until that day, enjoy the quiet, cleanliness of just one person in the house,
    Ahh..."quiet cleanliness"...God I miss that!!!
  13. by   adrienurse
    Sorry, gotta get out of this self-loathing funk that I'm in. See! That's what happen when I slow down, I start to think.


    It's just that I have such a bad, bad history to draw on.

    Please, my sisters and brothers, send some good love vibes my way!
  14. by   delirium
    I'm sending you good love vibes.

    In fact, you can borrow my low-riding jeans and halter top, if you think that would help...

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