Jnette . . .hey, we are almost the same age. :-)
My husband will turn 50 in August (gotta think of something fun for that) . . .came home yesterday with a story. Seems he met a woman yesterday while unloading his logs at the mill who told him that she has noticed that when he comes in to the mill, he is always smiling and friendly. He said "well, this is why" and took a photo of our toddler out of his wallet. The nice lady said "oh what a cute grandson you have!!". My husband laughed and said, "well, he could be my grandson, but actually he is my son". She felt bad but my husband thinks it is funny.
Having a toddler in your 40's keeps you young . .even if you don't look it. (ha ha)
Having teenagers in your 40's is what really ages you.