My oldest child has informed me that I am a grandma (maybe)????
Now, if there were not a maybe, I would be thrilled. He is old enough to parent, certainly responsible and has enough love in his heart to nurture another life.
Here's the problem, he's not sure the baby is his. He is not sure he wants to do DNA. He desperately wants this child to be his.
History: He was in a long term relationship for about 8 years with his high school sweetheart, she met someone else, got pregnant and delivered her own child 1 day after his birthday.
Now...... this "girl" (23 yrs old) who I assume he had had relations with, just delivered a baby girl this month and says it could be his?????? could be?????
This is her fifth child, I have never met her, but understand that all 5 have different fathers. :angryfire
My son is under the impression, she is going to give this child to him, He does not love her, just the child. One question running thru my mind is this "did this person see an opportunity in my son?" And purposely get pregnant? In all fairness, I know she did not get pregnant alone, possible my son helped, if so, great, be responsible, but don't make any life changing decisions you may regret.
Better yet, make decisions you can live with, 90 years from now.
Thanks for listening, as a parent you only want the best for your children, and his desperateness breaks my heart.