If my husband insults me one more time...

  1. I am going to hurt his feelings and tell him what I really think! I am trying my best in school and it is not good enough for him. I passed my test with a "C" but he says, "you need an A to make it!" Well, if I didn't have visions of him insulting me and making me feel stupid, maybe I could do better. When I get home from school, I need to cook, clean, and clean, and clean and pick up his mess that he leaves everywhere! Then after I finish all that....feeding him and washing the dishes. Then, he wants me to spend "time" with him. Then it is about midnight and I HAVE TO STUDY!! So I say, " hey baby, can we wait, I have a test." Then, he says, "what have you been doing all day. The house is dirty and that food you cooked was from a package that take 10 minutes!" Well, of course, I bring home a "C" and then comes the insults. What can I do to make it clear to him that I need time to study but I love him too and wish to spend time with him. I only have a year left and then I am all his. Please help me and thanks for letting me vent.
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  2. 33 Comments

  3. by   jessjoy
    You have been nothing but rude and ignorant in your posts and now you expect some advice? :chuckle Here's some advice straight from one of your posts, "When in doubt, get out! See ya!"
  4. by   luvrn
    I hate to say it but agree with jessjoy, you have never had any words of encouragement for anyone else....start treating others how you would like to be treated.....
  5. by   LisaRN2B
    Methinks we've been had.

    OP has posted a conglomeration of many different posts found here on the allnurses.com BB.

    Go back and read it carefully, then check out the other posts by this person. :stone
  6. by   Marie_LPN, RN
    Sorry, no troll chow here.
  7. by   traumaRUs
    Alright I'm a sucker for the underdog or under-troll! You're an adult and presumably so is your husband - explain to him once and only once and then go on with life. Good luck...and please be nice!
  8. by   Tweety
    Your husband is a pig. Leave him immediately.
  9. by   manna
    Your husband is a grown man, you don't HAVE to do anything for him. If he doesn't like it, that's his problem. Just my 2 cents.
  10. by   LisaRN2B
    Quote from 3rdShiftGuy
    Your husband is a pig. Leave him immediately.


    Sorry...I couldn't help it. Tweety, you have such a way with words!
  11. by   jessjoy
    LMAO at Tweety
  12. by   RedRoses4Me
    Boy she is kinda mean...
  13. by   Dragonnurse1
    "only have a year left then I'm all his" I guess your not planning to work then. Or are you going to work somewhere other than in a hospital? In the first 2 years after I graduated I NEVER had a Friday off, then there is the weekend that you have to work and, oh yeah, new grads around here all start on nights. If you think he is insulting now - Just wait - it gets WORSE :angryfire

    I don't keep up with who writes what and I saw some rather abrupt replies but I always give people at least one break. In case you are being truthful - He will not ease up and your home life will not get better. You had better do a lot of soul searching and decide for yourself - are you better off with him in or out of your life?????????????????
  14. by   wrmbreeze
    After reading this I felt sorry that you had to deal with your hubby. After reading your other posts I don't feel sorry at all. Why don't you be as mean to him as you have been to the people of this board. Maybe then he'll learn to leave you alone.

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