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  1. I have decided tonite that I am leaving my husband of 14 years.
    He has some habits that I have tried to deal with/accept over the last couple of years. Tonite was the last straw. He has done some things that I don't agree with and I have had enough! Just needed to vent. thanks
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  3. by   Anniekins
    What was the last straw? So I take it there is no salvaging it now?
    Sorry to hear this, but I'm glad you made a choice to get out of an unhappy situation....it may be what is best for you in the long run.
  4. by   Tweety
    Good luck and take care. Let us know how you're doing. Hugs.
  5. by   theblondeone
    I'm sorry you're in this situation. Best wishes for your future, may it be peaceful and rewarding.
  6. by   NHLPN
    he keeps making some poor choices.
    things that i thought we had agreed upon, then low and behold he does something and says, "oh i thought i told you" or "'i was going to tell you"
  7. by   NHLPN
    i have compromised my life and choices to be supportive of his, and i always thought he was true to his word, then i find out he is not
  8. by   LesJenRN
    have you tried marriage counseling? i hope whatever your decision is, that you find happiness and strength....
  9. by   LauraF, RN
    I hope you are able to find peace and happiness in the choice you have made. Big hugs to you!
  10. by   RNPATL
    Making a decision to end a marriage or a long term relationship can be very traumatic and requires much thought. I was in your place several years ago and it was one of the toughest decisions I had to make in my life. But I knew it had to be done. Trust is a very important aspect in any relationship. Once the trust is gone, it is very difficult to regain it. I agree with LesJenRN ... have you received any counseling on this or is it a lost cause at this point? Good luck to you and know that we are here if you need us.
  11. by   SmilingBluEyes
    best wishes,whatever decisions you make. hang in there.
  12. by   MelRN13
    I wish the best for you. We're here for you if you need to talk.
  13. by   Blackcat99
    I wish you the best of luck. I am divorced. I tried to make my marriage work but it was impossible. My husband lied constantly. Finally the day came when I realized I had to give up on my marriage to save my own sanity. I am much happier now.
  14. by   MryRose
    ((((((((NHLPN)))))))) I'm so sorry for you.

    Sending lots of Hugs your way.