Hypocrisy and why I'm leaving too...

  1. Reeks in every post I've made the past week. I left a unit recently because I didn't like what I've become in those surroundings. I don't like myself now.

    Sometimes, I yell at my spouse, sometimes I yell at my dog. I've yelled even at my parents a time or two. With each passing day I'm getting into that mode. But just because I yell and criticize doesn't mean the love is gone.

    I'm taking a break to meditate and contemplate who and what I am here.

    I'm sorry for the anyone I've offended. My sincerest desire was to move on in a kind and gentle way. But each day I changed. By changing each day I made the day before a hyprocisy in my eyes and the eyes of others.

    It's only a bb and life's to short for my sincerity to be thrown away. I generally don't sweat the small stuff.

    I'll be back, because there's only one thread that's not good. The rest of the bb rocks! Just need a breather.
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  3. by   passing thru
    A break always helps put the important stuff
    back at the top of the heap.

    As you said in your post. You have a life. And you have important people to share your life with.

    See ya down the block...
    I PM'd ya.
  4. by   psychonurse
    Yes there is more to life then bulletin boards although I do have fun when I get on and vent some feelings.

    We all get into that mode and you shouldn't be taking out your frustrations on the people that you love. I have been getting overstressed sometimes at work and I yell at my SO and I feel really bad after I get finished. Life is to short to hurt people especially those that you love.....see you on the other side and have great thoughts.
  5. by   JMP
    Tweety : Below is the dictionary meaning of hyprocisy

    Meaning: Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have.

    Broader: insincerity
    falseness

    Narrower: sanctimoniousness
    sanctimony
    fulsomeness
    oiliness
    oleaginousness
    smarminess
    unctuousness
    unction

    Certainly at no time when I was reading your posts ( and I read most of them) did I see any of the above traits. I know that of late, you have felt frustration and impatience.... I could see that....but, never insincerity or falseness.

    Your posts....from my point of view ....where geniune and always looking for the truth of the matter. Your words where often kind and gentle. It is OK for us to disagree, even with people we like.

    Take a breather, but know we will be here, when you return and we hope it is soon.
  6. by   Rapheal
    Take a break, refresh yourself. Let us know when you come back. I really like you 3rd shift guy. Best of luck getting your house in order. Come on back when the time is right. I'll write you another poem to celebrate your return.
  7. by   cwazycwissyRN
    Originally posted by JMP
    Tweety : Below is the dictionary meaning of hyprocisy

    Meaning: Insincerity by virtue of pretending to have qualities or beliefs that you do not really have.

    Broader: insincerity
    falseness



    Certainly at no time when I was reading your posts ( and I read most of them) did I see any of the above traits. I know that of late, you have felt frustration and impatience.... I could see that....but, never insincerity or falseness.

    Your posts....from my point of view ....where geniune and always looking for the truth of the matter. Your words where often kind and gentle. It is OK for us to disagree, even with people we like.








    :kiss
    I agree JMP . Third shift guy I will look forward to your return. Do something special for yourself while your gone. You deserve it. Keep in mind, as you said it is only one thread. :kiss
    Last edit by cwazycwissyRN on Apr 22, '03
  8. by   RRMLPN
    Hope you return soon. I think JMP made a good point, never have i felt you were being insensitive or riding the fence so to speak. Your words were very heartfelt . Frustration with the situation is affecting everyone, so please take a break and come back soon.
  9. by   SmilingBluEyes
    you are NO hypocrite but if a break would do you good I support you 100% ...best wishes.
  10. by   night owl
    Take a break, have a beer.
    When ya feel like talkin, we'll all be here!

    Don't stay away too long... K?
    Last edit by night owl on Apr 22, '03
  11. by   PennyLane
    Tweety: I have been reading your threads with interest as of late, and several times I wanted to jump in and thank you for your thoughts, but I didn't want to 'add fuel to the fire' so to speak with regards to that thread. I've always looked for your posts--you and I joined around the same-ish time last year. You seem like a really cool, thoughtful, and sincere guy.

    I understand your need for a breather, but please do come back when you're ready. I for one, think I can still enjoy myself here and will try to do so!

    Take care of yourself and get your good spirits back.
  12. by   LauraF, RN
    3rdShiftGuy, I'll miss you. I understand the need for a break. I've decided not to go to that thread either. Hopefully when you come back you will be refreshed and feeling much better. You will be missed while your gone.:kiss
  13. by   tiger
    i do think you are a hypocrit.you proved that in the merged thread.
    and i'd like to add, that there are a few posters who feel the need to tell others what they should be able to post. i disagree with them. i think regardless if it has been posted or not, regardless if some people think it is beating a dead horse, or regardless if some people think it is insignificant, that anyone should be able to post about anything they like. flames come when certain posters come in and say----- "well, you shouldn't have posted that, it has already been discussed to death.", dnr please", OR, "you shouldn't have posted that, it is in the past.", OR "you shouldn't put your concerns here, e-mail brian(as if they are some authority). in general, i just have a problem with some members telling other members how they should post.

    if you are not a mod(who is supposed to moderate the discussions) and you are not brian then mind your own business. you don't need to respond to a thread to tell others what they should or should not be posting. can't you just ignore it.

    i know this sounds like a contradiction.but i think those who want to can see what i'm saying can. i don't mean for people not to post their opinions. but why try to give others instruction on how to post?????

    ps can rncountry be reinstated now??????? i miss her!
    Last edit by tiger on May 22, '03
  14. by   itsme
    I enjoy all of your posts. You take this break, and be sure to hug those loved ones and tell them what they mean to you. Spend time for you, and get back to the 3rd shift guy YOU know and love!! I hope you are feeling better soon!

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