*sigh* Honestly, as a man, I refuse to answer the "Why do guys do this?" questions. If you want to know why *I* do something, that I can answer. But answering for all men? Please. That would be like me asking you to answer why one woman does something (and me assuming that ALL women are that way).
If you have questions ABOUT your husband, I suggest you ask them TO him. I can't answer for him, and I hope you ARE just venting and not assuming that ALL men do those things. If I don't do them (and I DON'T), I don't have any answers for you.
- *I* pick my girlfriend's clothes up and put them in the dirty clothes hamper, but I'm not on here asking, "Why do women always leave their clothes in the floor???" because that's not true or accurate. I also choose to do it, and it takes just a few seconds...unless I'm keeping score (which I don't, but humor me here), in which case I have to get out my mental scrorecard out.
- I write everything in my daytimer so I don't forget it (I learned years ago that if I don't write it down, it doesn't get remembered or done). My girlfriend asks me to write notes in my daytimer to remind HER of dentist/dr. appt's.
- I have no interest in gadgets. I didn't own a pager when they were the rage, and I don't own a cell phone now. Just another bill to pay, and I need that like I need another hole in my head.
- When I need to do/fix something, I'd rather you leave me the hell alone so I CAN get it done, without you getting in my way or asking "Is it done yet?" every five minutes.
Can you put your husband(s) on here so they can vent about YOU?