HELP...Update .Had some personal items stolen ... by a friend

  1. Ok guys ... remember this "friend" I had that stole some bday cards & a pic from me?

    I confronted her about it ... & she of course totally denied it. Then she lied about my bf mentioning it to her.

    Welllll...... I saw her today. She said I owed her money for some items she bought for my place while I was gone. I told her that I would reimburse her, BUT I would need to see the receipts first. I've been asking for them ever since I got back from my trip so I can close this matter. Frankly I'm not so sure that she doesn't owe me money ... but the receipts will tell. (Remember I THOUGHT she was my friend before I left & gave her some money to buy things I knew she would get for my place.)

    Wellllllllll...... she starts to verbally attack me .... says some really crappy out of line things. Screaming at me and all that ... totally out of line.

    And I hit her. :imbar

    I've never (since I was a really young kid) hit anyone in my life.

    I don't know what to think....
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  2. 11 Comments

  3. by   sunnygirl272
    HHHmmm...will be interesting to see what the wiser beings say...my thoughts:

    1)hope she doesn't file charges against you
    2)i still don't trust the boyfriend..i forget, were you in his presence when he (allegedly) discussed things with her?
    3)she's a bunny-boiling psycho...

    i am not attacking you, hope you do not take my response that way....
    melinda
  4. by   kittyw
    I don't think she can or will file charges ... she returned the slap & there's no marks.... no proof anything happened.

    I was "behind the scenes" when he discussed my missing items. Ie... I could hear the conversation but she was not aware of it. As for the bf issue ... will see in a year when I move out of state.

    She needs to up her antipsychotic med dosage!
  5. by   kittyw
    Originally posted by sunnygirl272

    i am not attacking you, hope you do not take my response that way....
    melinda
    Nope ... don't think that of you or anyone else that's posted on my last thread. Sometimes people from the outside can see a bit more clearer than you can.

    Thanks guys!
  6. by   Mkue
    OMG, I hope you can get this resolved, it's sad it had to come to this.

    Good Luck Kittyw


  7. by   kittyw
    Me too. I've tried so hard to just walk away.

    Anyways, found out that she owes me $172 ...
  8. by   OBNURSEHEATHER
    Sunnygirl - you rock! bunny boiling psycho!!!!!

    kitty - how is it that she owes you money?

    Heather
  9. by   Rustyhammer
    Theres a time to talk and then there is a time when the talking is over.
    It happens.
    -Russell
  10. by   fedupnurse
    Get this wacko out of your life STAT!!! People like this are spiritual vampires! Life is way to short to have evil people like this in your life.
    Good luck!
  11. by   Jenny P
    Have you considered Judge Judy yet? Just kidding; but this is getting very weird from my vantage point.

    Has she explained how your bf's pic got in her house, etc.? And how much $$$ does she think you owe her?

    It takes a long time for me to get mad, but once I do, I snap! I don't feel that I can be held responsible if someone has provoked me to anger-- but my boiling point usually lasts less than 30 seconds.
  12. by   sunnygirl272
    <--click pic

    judge judy-speak<<<---this is totally off-topic, but hope it might lessen kitty's stress for a brief moment...
  13. by   2MagnoliaTrees
    I'd right off the money owed from her and just call it a life lesson and get as far away from her as possible. Change phone # and don't let her into your life period. These kind of people start off this way and before you know it your whole life is shot because of one person's insanity. I like the line about the "boiling bunny psycho". God Bless and keep your distance from her.

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