Help me get even

  1. I need a site that has great nude men on it, but rather not do the porn thing. Found neked pic, on hubby's comp. Two can play this game. Any suggestions? I'm counting on ya.
  2. 11 Comments

  3. by   emily_mom
    I don't think you should do that, personally. Besides the fact you won't find nudies without porn spam, you could catch a virus (the puter kind, that is...).

    Best just to kick his azz and not resort to "playing games". Just IMHO.
  4. by   Sleepyeyes
    I suggest having a real, honest conversation with him, too.

    Can't play mind games in a marriage; marriage is your emotional refuge from the world. If that ain't true or you both can't make it true for each other, why be married?
  5. by   Little One2
    I'm not married, so I can't really give any advice on dealing with husbands. But, by stooping to his level, and playing games will only make the situation worst.

    Trying talking to him in a calm way. Don't get even. Work it out.
  6. by   sunnygirl272
    i PMed ya!!!!:chuckle
    Well, I also don't think you want to stoop to his level.

    The difference between the 2 of you is that you don't NEED to look at other naked people, and quite frankly I would have much more found holding that over his head on every possible chance you get. THAT is perfect revenge!

    I'd have a little sexual "drought" too if I were you. Tell him that knowing he's looking at other naked women makes you feel completely undesirable and unsexual, and not at all like pleasing him.

    I could PM you too, but I'm sure Sunny said all the good stuff.

  8. by   SmilingBluEyes
    Ummm try a level-headed, honest conversation, and not the silly childish games. It will only backfire on you and get nothing accomplished.
  9. by   GayleD
    I have to agree with the above posts. Don't stoop to his level - been there, done that. It only closes the conversation gap more and makes it harder to rectify things as they progress.

    Talk to him, get it out in the open and explain why you don't like it. He should understand and if he loves you, he will!
  10. by   Tilleycs
    I agree, better to talk about this than cover it up, deny how it affects you, and resort to "getting even". NO ONE wins if someone decides to handle things that way. Better to be an adult and talk about it.
    Any updates kayzee? How'd it go??

  12. by   renerian
    Yes I was wondering how things were? I bet it is very difficult.

  13. by   BadBird
    Next time you go to the mall if you have a Spencer's Gifts, go in there, they have hilarious cards with women at least 300 lbs plus. I think that would make a great birthday card, LOL.