Quote from truern
Wow, sweetie. I know you posted this in the male nursing forum for male POVs, but as a friend I have to tell you that she was c-o-l-d. She already filed?! Without so much as a word?! I think I smell a boyfriend lurking in the shadows.
It's funny how you say that yet he said that she is being fair in the process of this divorce. I wouldn't assume anything about someone you don't know. I guess in your assumption the only way people divorce is cause their adulterous???
A fair divorce is not usually how divorce is. Usually its harsh and consists of fights. If they go through their divorce with respect for one another and being equal and fair, that's better than most of the divorces out there currently.
Sorry to say but when one wants a divorce, that's basically it. You can try to work things out but it'll end in divorce why prolong the wound. If she wants it and you are willing, why fight it, she'll hate you even more especially since you said she is being fair right now.
Sorry to hear about this but a fair divorce is better than a nasty long drawn out fight. You will get better and the feeling of distrust will go away, since right now I KNOW you are hurt (I am a divorcee so I know what your going through). Then you'll come to a point in your life where your like ex-wife who? Just be as amicable as you can right now and hope this divorce is a short equal non fighting one. I had one that was 2 1/2 years long and thats WITHOUT kids. If I could of settled for a fast speedy one I would have LOL.