Friend needs advice

  1. If your good friend came to you, saying she found some V -I-A-G-R-A in her husband's travel bag, what would you recommend she do? I told her to confront calmly.
  2. 5 Comments

  3. by   muffie
    excellent advice les
  4. by   abooker
    I dunno ... denial seems to work well for a lot of *my* friends.

    He could be using it for a different purpose, like to lower his blood pressure while traveling? There could be a reasonable, rational, logical explanation. dont Jump to conclusions. I mean, there are reasons not to confront. There are other options, maybe counseling?

    I am so sorry this is happening to your friend.
  5. by   bethin
    I agree that she shouldn't jump to conclusions. It's interesting though that it's in his travel bag, like he's trying to hide it. And if he was just taking it for his bp he would probably have told her. She should sit down calmly with him and ask about it - and pray that it is for his bp.
  6. by   leslie :-D
    if it's for his bp, why not take an antihypertensive?

    the only way to find out, is to ask.

  7. by   zuzi
    Quote from lesrn2005
    I told her to confront calmly.
    "Confront" is an word who dosen't sound well on sensitive Zuzi's ears, lool, not confrontation!

    Discuss with him may be, but the question is why and for what purpose your friend need to know that?

    1. Why he use Viagra? or
    2. Why he has Viagra in bags travel, looool?
    3.or both

    Zuzi not curiose at all, looooooool! Only my advice!

    One day she will find anyway, loooool. Just my advice!