For the ladies:What do consider sexy in a man?

  1. Just wondering. Is is his voice, sense of humor, the aftershave he wears, the way he wears a shirt?? I don't know for the life of me, but seeing a handsome man in a white linen shirt just turns me on like you wouldn't believe. I swear I don't know why. Anyhoo, what do YOU consider a sensual turn on? It would be interesting to hear the answers.{Within reason of course!!}
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  3. by   kitty29
    Quote from warrior woman
    Just wondering. Is is his voice, sense of humor, the aftershave he wears, the way he wears a shirt?? I don't know for the life of me, but seeing a handsome man in a white linen shirt just turns me on like you wouldn't believe. I swear I don't know why. Anyhoo, what do YOU consider a sensual turn on? It would be interesting to hear the answers.{Within reason of course!!}

    Attitude and humor...a "blue jean's" sort of man....outdoor person....an animal lover..........the type of eyes you get lost in.....tall...


    Geez.....any guys out there fitting this feel free to respond!
  4. by   jaimealmostRN
    I loooooooove a man in uniform! I also like guys with a few tattoos (not too many) and my biggest crush is a older guy (not usually my type) on that show Animal Precient (sp) who is all tough but then cuddles a puppy!
  5. by   suzy253
    hmmmm...sometimes it depends on the 'whole package'. could be real cute but turn out to be an idiot in my book.
    I must admit I'm attracted to dark hair over blondes. I'm 5'11 and have to say that height doesn't necessarily matter as my hubby is 5'9". I've been involved in some relationships where they had to be 6' and over and gave up! :chuckle Missed out on some real nice shorter guys in my days of past.
    Personality wise--has to be able to make me laugh....have a 'personality' and just like to laugh and have fun in general.
  6. by   Gator,SN
    Attitude is everything! A man that is self confident without being arrogant is totally sexy to me. I also like a nice smile and someone with a sense of humor. My girlfriends and I often talk about certain men that are not exactly "hot" but once you get to know them, they just draw your attention.

    On the shallow side: well defined abs, a nice bum in a pair of levi's and of course, a nice face. I guess I'm showing my age, but I still like men that have the 80's look. The other day I saw a rerun of Renegade with Lorenzo Llamas, yum! That is totally sexy! The whole Harley riding, bad-*** leather thing............well I guess thats another thread.
    Gator
  7. by   suzy253
    well of course John Cusack totally does me in. So much that he's my avitar piccy. :chuckle

    quoting Carson from "Queer Eye for a Straight Guy".......
    'is it hot in here or is it you?'

    so funny. :chuckle
  8. by   kkbaroness
    He's gotta be funny.... a sense of humor. A military short haircut and a nice fit to his blue jeans doesn't hurt.
  9. by   Energizer Bunny
    Quote from Gator,SN
    Attitude is everything! A man that is self confident without being arrogant is totally sexy to me. I also like a nice smile and someone with a sense of humor. My girlfriends and I often talk about certain men that are not exactly "hot" but once you get to know them, they just draw your attention.
    this is EXACTLY how I feel. I wasn't really attracted to my dh until I started getting to know him. (he's also older as someone else talked about)
  10. by   movealong
    It's very difficult to pinpoint one quality. The men I find very attractive just have a "thing about them". They give off a certain vibe.........it can be a look in their eyes, the way they smile or talk, the way they handle themselves.

    I don't have a "type" other than I like men to be taller than I am! And not too much body hair!
    Last edit by movealong on Jul 6, '04
  11. by   Altra
    A man who is comfortable with himself and has a sense of humor.

    From a purely physical standpoint, super short hair and/or a uniform will usually make me look twice! :chuckle
  12. by   ragingmomster
    Hands in the dishpan, dinner in the oven, laundry folded and put away will always turn my head!
  13. by   Energizer Bunny
    Quote from ragingmomster
    Hands in the dishpan, dinner in the oven, laundry folded and put away will always turn my head!
    At this point, that would do it for me too! LOL!
  14. by   Darlene K.
    Quote from suzy253
    well of course John Cusack totally does me in. So much that he's my avitar piccy. :chuckle

    quoting Carson from "Queer Eye for a Straight Guy".......
    'is it hot in here or is it you?'

    so funny. :chuckle

    I'm with you in regards to John Cusack! He is my favorite too. Great biceps in a nicely fitted shirt and you've got my attention.... :kiss

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