Breaking up is hard to do

  1. Last night i ended my relationship with my boyfriend.
    he really is a great guy...but he didn't have enough time for me. Not to mention with me starting my job, i did'nt have enough time either. But i got kinda sick of sitting there waiting for him to call, when i knew he wouldn't. we ended on a good note, try to stay friends, i really will miss him. It was one of those relationships where, when he was around I was crazy about him, but when he wasn't around, i could find a million things wrong with the relationship and why it wasn't working. Oh well, maybe i will meet a nice tech or nurse or....someone at work
    i just wanted to vent a little, i've been sitting here all day playing last night out in my head and analyzing it.
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  2. 25 Comments

  3. by   knowlegzseekr
    It is always difficult when relationships don't work out
    But on the other hand....when one door closes another one opens!
    It's good that things ended on a good note though
    coulda been worse
    You'll find another boyfriend in no time- be careful with rebound relationships though -they can get icky:roll
  4. by   live4today
    Originally posted by knowlegzseekr
    It is always difficult when relationships don't work out
    But on the other hand....when one door closes another one opens!
    It's good that things ended on a good note though
    coulda been worse
    You'll find another boyfriend in no time- be careful with rebound relationships though -they can get icky:roll
    I hope you don't mind my quoting you, knowlegzseekr, but I love the response you have given Walmart_ADN. No need to mess up a good message. :kiss

    Here's to ya, Walmart_ADN: ((((((Hugs)))))) :kiss Feel free to cry on "Mother's shoulder" here anytime. Sounds to me like you did the right thing, so don't look back and start regretting your choice. Move forward...you are young...you'll be thanking yourself for not getting further involved in a relationship that doesn't quite speak to your needs, and YOUR NEEDS are important! DON'T SETTLE.....NO.....NOT EVER!!!
  5. by   nursegoodguy
    It takes a lot of time and getting envolved in your own life. You'll be okay, it's just a hard time for you right now.
  6. by   Sleepyeyes
    ((((((hugs to you)))))))

    Always remember: you can't meet mr. right if you're still with mr. wrong...
  7. by   Love-A-Nurse
    originally posted by sleepyeyes
    ((((((hugs to you)))))))

    always remember: you can't meet mr. right if you're still with mr. wrong...
    what a statement!
  8. by   Love-A-Nurse
    originally posted by knowlegzseekr
    it is always difficult when relationships don't work out
    but on the other hand....when one door closes another one opens!
    it's good that things ended on a good note though
    coulda been worse
    you'll find another boyfriend in no time- be careful with rebound relationships though -they can get icky:roll
    (((((((walmart_ adn)))))))! you have gotten a lot of great advice. the last statement of knowlegzseekr's post is a great one!
  9. by   JAYNE :DANCE:
    (((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) GOING OUT TO YOU........CONCENTRATE ON YOU FOR A WHILE, AND WHEN YOU ARE LEAST EXPECTING IT MR. RIGHT WILL POP UP INTO YOUR LIFE.......
  10. by   RNinICU
    Ditto to all of the advice already given. The perfect match for you may come along tomorrow, or five years from now. In the meantime, have fun, and work hard, and you will continue to mature into the kind of woman who will someday enrich another's life.
  11. by   jevans
    The advice already given is so valid but please remeber we are your friends and will support.

    Bless you love
    j:kiss
  12. by   live4today
    originally posted by sleepyeyes
    ((((((hugs to you)))))))

    always remember: you can't meet mr. right if you're still with mr. wrong...
    hmmmmmmm....great you got there, sleepyeyes. :d
  13. by   OBNURSEHEATHER
    (((((walmart))))) Hugs to you in this difficult time. No matter what people say, even though you knew it wasn't meant to be doesn't make it any easier.

    Try to take some time for yourself now. This is such an exciting time for you! Face your new challenges head on, and the rest will fall into place!

    :kiss

    Heather
  14. by   RNConnieF
    Here's a hug to add to your collection. Could you share some of your wisdom with my almost 21 yo daughter?

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